In high school I was teased by some girls because I was fat, nerdy, and had glasses. However while attending college away I lifted weights, joined boxing, and now dress with the best urban gear. I now am able to get any woman I want and when I came back home I rejected and insulted those girls who teased me in high school that now want me and they was upset and felt bad that I did that to them. Is this great revenge?
2007-03-14 05:50:41 · 14 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your all adults now, and as an adult you should grow up, its not high school anymore, and by the way, if i were you i would have sleeped with each one of them, that would have been the best revenge for sure, actually try to get them all in bed, now that would rock.
2007-03-14 05:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by cujo#31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!...This is not a great revenge...you already had your revenge on these girls while at college lifting weights, and boxing and basically becoming a hunk!! If you were polite to these woman that now want you and turned them down politely, they would of gone away feeling bad and how they missed out on a good thing. But instead they went away saying "what a jerk, we were right all those years"..You would of had greater satisfaction hurting these women with kindness instead of malice..at the end of the day what did you prove..that you came back a sophisticated man..or a beefed up jerk.
2007-03-14 06:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by untouchable.sensations 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my opinion, there is no such thing as sweet revenge, you know. I'll feel guilty afterwards and the cycle begins again and again, they'll wanna revenge on u etc. etc. ... Just think about the war on Iraq, part of the reason is because of what they did to us. Whether or not you're for the war is none of my business, I'm just saying does the end justify ALL the means???
2007-03-14 05:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by RC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You problem could have done better and killed them with kindness.
But I have read in several articles that those who bully others very rarely understand that they are hurting that person. So the girls that teased you in high school probably have no memory of teasing you at all or that they hurt your feelings.
Just be nice to them and then remind them how they treated you in high school and tell then tell them to buzz off. I think that would make more of an impact.
2007-03-14 05:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by lremmell64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly do u get from doing so?
Self pleasure of course.
Other than that, you get nothing.
All you'll feel is the emptiness you had felt back then as u feel now.
They were immature those times
Now, you are in college and they have grown.
Learn and accept that people changes
Accept their apology if they ever make one
If not, just ignore them.
Just reject them. Don't insult them.
Don't be just like them who insult and tease others
You know you are different.
By doing just exactly what they had done, you are becoming exactly just like them.
Don't be...
2007-03-14 05:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by crazy dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have the same issue, except im going through it, actually going to switch schools, went through it ever since i moved when i was in 5th grade, horrible horrible, and yea when im done with highschool i plan on getting revenge, i say you did the right thing girlfriend
if you don't mind answering my latest question, much appreciated.
2007-03-14 05:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by Skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes thats great..you know what they say, revenge is like the sweetest joy next to getting p***y
2007-03-14 05:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by IC4NDY_ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Like Dr. Phil says, "How's that working for you?". Looks like you didn't achieve the MOST important thing since graduating high school. You haven't GROWN UP yet. Try it sometime, you might like it.
2007-03-14 05:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by mixedup 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it truly is termed being a jerk!!! im sorry i cant simpathy with ur "revenge movements" because u didnt like it at the same time as they teased u, so why may u be a jerk to them? did it experience sturdy at the same time as they rejected u?? do u imagine that they experience sturdy about it too? i dont imagine so. i imagine that s being a jerk. and u r being too inmature, bear in options, that replaced into in severe college, adn maximum young ones in undemanding words care about seems at that age. they were youthful, they didnt evaluate human beings for his or her capacities, yet for his or her look. they in undemanding words had to maintain their social status up in severe college, and probably felt embarassed by ability of being seen with a nerd. and back THEY were basically young ones!!! young ones are f*cking stupid. yet YOU, u r grown up, what replaced into the reason to lead them to experience undesirable??? in my view, u ought to bypass as a lot as them and appologize, tell them that it truly struck u how badly they dealt with u in severe college, and at the same time as u said them those options got here back, and that u r sorry for being a jerk. bear in options, it wasnt humorous at the same time as human beings made exciting of u. so dont be a jerk to others, in spite of in the journey that they dealt with u that way.
2016-12-02 00:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by thetford 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you show them your the boss is boxing hard im joining next week
2007-03-14 05:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋