you have to be patient and cunning. are you his friend? drop hints about her putting him down, or better yet that he is under the thumb from her.
you have to wait until he has done something stupid then pounce. you have to be really nice to her all the time.
its a hard mission but worth it!
2007-03-14 05:52:08
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answered by Michael T 2
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I'm sure if you look around you'll find a girl that is "every man's dream" and available. Leave this couple alone !! If you like her so much why in the world would you do something to hurt her? I'd bet even if she wasn't with anyone you wouldn't be her choice. If you started acting more mature and less like a jerk who know , than she might see the good qualities in you. Right now all anyone sees is a spiteful, mean spirited person. If you are a good boy start acting like it now!
2007-03-14 12:55:16
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answered by lucyshines49 4
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I completely understand how you feel. When i was in high school I was in love with a girl. She had a boyfriend for a very long time & they seemed to be very serious about their future together. I wanted to be with her, but i couldn't. It killed me because she always seemed to be flirty with me so i thought her feelings about me were the same. Well, I had too much respect for her to try & destroy her relationship with him because it seemed she was happy so i just let it go. I was happy being friends with her.
Well, years have passed and i still have the memories of her.. but I have met a woman that TOTALLY blows her out of the water. She's the best! We've been together for over 4 years, and we are engaged to be married.
If i knew then what i know now I would've done the same thing because my fiancee now is everything I could ever ask for in a woman.
I guess the "moral" of my little story is to just let things happen. If you don't get with her you can still be her friend and life goes on. You'll meet someone else who will be just as good or BETTER than her.
No matter what the outcome, i wish you luck.
2007-03-14 12:55:09
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answered by Anonymous
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You have to MAN UP and do something about it!!!!
Come on now... you shouldnt be sitting here wasting your time with all these people who dont even know the girl you like. Just doesnt make sense, they cant help you if they dont know how your feeling you know?
You just have to do sweet things for her to get her to think... hmmm I wonder about him... send her roses as a secret admirer and slip lil love notes in them. Like "You know me and I know you, your taken but still I love you and I want you to know so just take a guess, who am I? A close friend ;-)" Something cute and mysetrious like that! Thats actually quite sexy cause its so secretive and romantic at the same time.
You have to sit her down all alone, just you two, make her dinner and invite her over and just tell her AFTER you two are done eating and hold her hand and tell her what your about to say its very important and that you just HAD to tell her before she moves on with her boyfriend. If she feels the same way then she shouldnt even dare think twice, you seem like you are completely in love and I think its adorable!!!!!
Goodluck and I hope you get the girl ;-)
2007-03-14 23:34:03
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answered by *HILWA* 4
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Sounds like you are as you keep refering to as 'a jerk'.
If the girl is in a long term relationship you will have very little chance.
On another note your previous girl left you for another man - this suggests that your no brad pitt and certainly unaware of how to satisfy a girl in the bedroom. Im guessing your an insecure spineless little maggot who is chasing after someone who is probably minging anyway. Get a life fella - or a plastic doll.
2007-03-14 12:53:10
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answered by matthewadampacey 1
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Even if you get her you won't be satisfied because there is always someone better in that way. Plus by then you'll have made at least three people miserable. Forget about it and move on, there are plenty more fish in the sea.
2007-03-14 12:56:10
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answered by mesun1408 6
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have you ever thought that she may not be interested in you...if she was, then she'd be with you now...get over yourself and find someone who's not taken...why do you want to ruin peoples lives by beaking them up...you wont be thanked for it...get a life...better still get your own girl...one more thing....i hope her man gets to hear this coz then he'd beat the livin pulp out of you....how dare you try and break someone up for your own selfish reasons...if she had any sense she'd run a mile...you sound like a right weirdo...you need to grow up....FAST.....
2007-03-14 13:00:04
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answered by Dazzlebox 7
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Listen, if she doesn't think her bf is a loser there's nothing you can do short of sabotaging their relationship with lies which would make you a true piece of sh*t.
If this dude isn't worthy of her all you can hope for is that she's a good enough judge of character to notice and end it.
Gotta tell you though it's not looking good for ya. Maybe you should just move on.
2007-03-14 12:54:36
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answered by ♫Silvi♪ 5
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First you need to grow up, you sound very immature. She like the type of guy she's with so she probably won't like you and even if they break up you probably won't stand a chance. Find some of the other millions of girls you could fall in love with.
2007-03-14 12:52:44
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answered by bestbet77 3
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LMAO....you need help. What's so special about this girl? You say she's every mans dream....hmmm...is she rich? I don't think you're a jerk, I just think you're plain nuts. As charming as you are, if she wanted you, she'd be yours. Keep it in your pants and move on to the next victim...er...girl.
2007-03-14 17:02:04
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answered by Anonymous
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One method is to wait until he has an affair.. then slip him a faulty condom... (i was thinking of openning a joke shop selling them.. I reckon Id make a few bob) anyway good luck
2007-03-14 13:01:24
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answered by gigbagman 1
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