I've been dating a guy for a few weeks now. He's really nice and sweet and all of my friends like him. But now I'm beginning to have feelings for an ex-bf. I want to stay with my bf cause I really like him and might even love him, but what can I do about my ex? He flirts with me and I flirt back out of habit. I don't mean to, but I have a tendency to flirt with almost every guy I meet. What can I do about it all?
2007-03-14 05:41:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's really common for you to start having feelings about an ex. you start second guessing yourself, and thinking that you made a mistake, and I know exactly how you feel cause I've been there before.
I see it in guys more than girls, because guys always long for "the one that got away". You need to ask yourself if you truly care about the guy you are with, and if so, stay where you are.
Also, remember why you aren't with the other guy... you broke up for a reason, remember?
2007-03-14 05:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by ski4ever1977 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you take the weekend off from both of them. Spend some time with friends, or just by yourself doing things you enjoy doing and perhaps by Monday you will have answered your own question. It's always hard to make a decision about someone when they're in your face.
2007-03-16 12:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have issues. You need to understand what you are lacking as a human being if you feel you need so much male attention. This is a common problem with young women these days. Especially if she did not have a close relatinship with her father. If you can not get this figured out you will be have difficulty in every relationship in your life.
2007-03-14 12:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself what you really want. ask ur ex-bf if he has feelings for you still cuz it makes stuff more complicated when u dont know. and if he still does sort things out and if you want things to work out with your new bf you shud talk to ur ex and tell him to jus stay good friends cuz thats the best thing to do and it`ll be better for everyone including you.
2007-03-15 09:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by Teardrops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off dont make the mistake i did....i was going out w/some1 and she ended breaking up w/me b/c of flirting w/some1 else so dont make the same mistake as me.....as for what u should do tell ur ex that hey u n me arent dating no more and im with some1 now so maybe we should just be friends
2007-03-14 13:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up, when you are older you will settle down and stop having the wandering eye,, at a young age it is normal to want to feel pretty and have guys flirt with you and you flirt with guys,
2007-03-14 12:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an ex is an ex, being flirty and restarting a relationship will just lead you back into the same corner. if you really do love your boyfriend, stick with it
2007-03-14 12:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by truthxbeyondxrecognition 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to remember why he's your ex in the first place. There is a reason you broke up.
2007-03-14 12:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop window shopping and buy something girl-YEA its fun and NOT slutty
2007-03-14 12:47:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will pass
2007-03-14 12:43:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋