I personally like a man who is intelligent, talented, and has a nice income, but sometime you can't find all that in one package. What do you women out there like or think?
2007-03-14 05:32:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So, most of you think a good since of humor and personality are important. I like the way you all think.
2007-03-14 06:43:39 · update #1
For me the biggest 'turn on' is the 'talks' that my husband and I have ... we can and do talk about 'everything under the sun' ... from the weather to politics to the 'aesthetics of the colors of the sky' ... and we are 'totally in love with each other' and also 'love each other totally and unconditionally' because of the 'result' of all of those 'good talks' we've had. Yes, there is a 'difference' between being 'in love' and 'loving totally and unconditionally' ... and for us there is 'both' in our marriage. THAT is what is a 'total turn on' to me and to him. And no, we don't always 'agree' on everything ... that would be so boring when we talk ... but we do 'complement' each other on some things, and agree on some ... and we also 'disagree' on some. It keeps our lives INTERESTING.
2007-03-14 05:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as traits to look for in a mate, perhaps a family man is most important. A man who likes kids. A man who is responsible. A man who is motivated. Everyone is talented in different ways. Who cares if he is a virtuoso in the philharmonic if he cheats on you? What good is wealth if he hates kids?
Start with finding a man who is a good man. All those other things can be aquired if he is a good man and loves you. Good lovers are made not born. If a man is a good husband and father he will do whatever it takes to provide a good income.
Look for quality raw material. You will be much more successful than looking for a finished work of art.
2007-03-14 05:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me chemistry is primary...if that's not there then no amount of sexual prowess, money, intelligence, looks, etc is going to matter in the long run because we won't make a good match.
However if the chemistry IS there, then other aspects can be considered. Sexual compatibility is important, as is him being financially independent, and having a brain and knowing how to use it. Those are all must-haves in a relationship for me...(among others)
2007-03-14 05:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality. Without a good peronality money and don't matter. It would be nice to have it all but if I had to chose that is what it would be. Money and sex can can't make a person a good partner. I much rather date a man who believed in hard work and earned what he had. That is all part of a good peronality. Plus if the sex is bad.. you can always teach him what he needs to do to satisfy u
2007-03-14 05:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 00:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it is intelligence, if he keeps a job, his parenting abilities and if he truly loves me or not. I am a simple country girl and income does'nt matter as long as the bills are paid and the kids are taken care of that's all that matters.
2007-03-14 05:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
intelligence usually leads to money in pocket.... the question is the talent in the bed. well, two out of three isn't too bad =)
2007-03-14 05:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by Cloudy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intelligence....What is going to happen when the money dies out and there's none left ?? You're going to be stuck with some nerd who doesn't know how to hold a conversation to save your life....
2007-03-14 05:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intelligence combined with sense of humor is number one for me.
2007-03-14 05:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by Lee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Intelligence." That's a cop out however, it's all 3 AND what they stand for! Americans worship lowlife politicians, celebrities, actors, athletes, etc., even though 90% of them are pure GARBAGE. So, it is "what a person stands for."
2007-03-14 05:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋