I am very nervous about moving away to gfo to college. My boyfriend is supposed to move with me to attend another college in the same area. I am moving an hour away. My boyfriend is having to save up the money to move right now and if he can't move whn I do then he will ASAP. We have been together for three years. I don't think that'd he'd cheat on me but I feel like if I'm not around all the time then he will go wild.
2007-03-14 05:31:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've been with him for 3 years yet you have no trust for him?
You HAVE to learn how to trust him or this relationship is never going to work. Being even an hour away is NOT a big difference. There are so many technical upgrades available (cell phone, email, letters) that communication is impossible NOT to have.
You really HAVE to trust him though. A relationship built on little to no trust is no more than a glorified friendship.
2007-03-14 05:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I realise you're probably feeling a bit nervous to set off to new grounds as it is....the thought that you'll have to do it alone is more than likely making you feel even more tense.
If your b/f was going to play around I reckon he would do it wherever you are hun.......I know it's a horrible feeling you're having right now but surely if he's the type to do it, then better you find out sooner than later.
You've been together 3 years already, has he played about before? what makes you worry that he may start it now; just because you may not be around, is that it?......you can't spend all your days keeping watch over him Babe, you'll never be able to concentrate on your studies....
KB
2007-03-14 12:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by Funky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to worry about if you trust him. If you dont trust him than theres no point of the relationship. If you two really love each other than dont worry about what hes doing think about when hes with you.
2007-03-14 12:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by smile114 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he goes wild, then he is not really committed to you. Do you really want to be with a man whose loyalty to you is maintained by you?
Let it go and see what happens. Either way it turns out, it will be for the best.
2007-03-14 12:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by rockin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you dont think he will cheat, he probably wont. trust him and if he loves you, him going wild is fine because he will still be thinking about you and not do anything too stupid.
let the boy live and trust your love for eachother!
2007-03-14 12:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't think he will cheat on you? lol ok your nieve but thats ok. You are both young and i don't wanna gurantee it but if he gets the chance he will bang the first hot girl that comes on to him if you are not there in the picture. He might be loyal but young guys are and remember this AS LOYAL AS THEIR OPTIONS!!!!!!!! but i don't know him so maybe but if your both going to college its will be over with in the year.
2007-03-14 12:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by Green Meds 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it will be all alright. I don't think he would waist three years. I asked my bf if he would cheat on me and he said that he wouldn't waist 3 yrs. So I think it will be o.k.
2007-03-14 12:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by Mamie-Lou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then hes not the man for you. Trust is everything..
2007-03-14 12:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by gregory_usa83 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will be fine you just have to trust him. Maybe tell him how you feel or something.
2007-03-14 12:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by faye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is do you trust you man? If you do then there are no worries
2007-03-14 12:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋