I'm with my boyfriend almost 4 months..He is so sweet and a really adore him and he adores me and love me...I believe him,I enjoy know and don't think taht anything could be wrong..But,I feel stupid when he is talking to some other girls,with my friends....actually,for examole,we were together on a party and some anonymous girl took his hand and started to talk to him and look at him like she would like to have him....I didn't know how to react and I just stand beside them and feelvery stupid:)He tried to "escape" in a nice way...and i know that he wouldn't like to have nothing with her,but I just was so Jealous!!!!I don't like that feeling..How not to be jealous....?How to control yourself...?what to think...?what to say to yourself?
2007-03-14 05:27:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps the best thing for you is to think of him as you would a butterfly. He is yours to enjoy but you can't put him in a jar and close the lid and isolate him or he will die or not be what you want. As long as he remains loyal to you, who cares if other girls he knew in the past come up to talk to him. Don't try to dominate him or you will lose him. Trust him.
2007-03-22 04:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if you love him and believe him and adore him then stop worrying unless he gives you a reason to suspect he is cheating. a little more self confidence will go a long way but tell him how it made you feel and when you are done talking just tell him how much he means to you, and that it worries you to think you could lose him.
2007-03-22 04:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by cacowboy_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to have more self confidence, if you do then you wouldnt feel threatened by those other girls. And if it is that hard for you to keep your b/f attention or to keep him from strayin on you then leave him before you invest any more of your emotions/ your life.
2007-03-14 05:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by corEy marsh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of allowing that feeling to get the better of you. Take a breath. And take control. If that incident would have happened to me, I would have taken my man's hand out of hers and said politely "excuse us." And took his hand and led him away. Smile!
2007-03-14 05:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI, WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS TELL THE GIRL HE IS WITH YOU AND TAKE HIM BY THE HAND AND WALK A WAY. THAT WAY THE GIRL FEEL STUPID NOT YOU. YOU HAVE TO STAND UP FOR YOUR MAN.
2007-03-22 02:20:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice and show that u r glad to know her and be like "hi, i'm bla bla...and you?" and be like "pretty name:)" and then turn to ur boyfriend and ask him something along the lines of "honey, do u wanna get something to drink?"
he tried to escape so that was good:D
2007-03-14 05:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe in your self more that's all you have to do if you know that he loves you don't worry
2007-03-21 17:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋