I think you are trying to hard. Relax, enjoy your life and someone will come along. Just keep your eyes open. The person might come along when you least expect it.
2007-03-14 05:26:41
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answered by Shelley L 6
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You are worrying too much about it. You can't see him because you are looking for him. Since you mentioned church, I'll bring out the most relevant scripture here....the bible says HE who finds a WIFE finds a good thing. That scripture actually has two meanings, one women commonly over-look. First, it's the man's responsibility to find you! He MUST pursue and conquer, he simply must in order to be a man. Second, the scripture does not say find a "girlfriend" or "a woman to marry" it says WIFE. That means you must already BE that what he is looking for. You can't wait until you have him to become that. So, for now concentrate on you. What qualities you want in a husband will only be mirrored by what you have to give. Be the best you that you can be and I guarantee you, he'll find you when it's time. Good luck.
2007-03-14 05:30:08
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answered by Brandy 6
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If you look like you are trying too hard, they will run away from you. Why fret? Life is too short to fret. In the meantime, enjoy life. Go out with friends, family. Treat yourself to vacations. But always be careful though. You try to hard you may end up picking up the wrong kind.
2007-03-14 05:27:59
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answered by Pinolera 6
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You may just been looking too hard.
Meet people--try a different church, go to a poetry reading, ANYTHING. And something the best way to get ANYTHING accomplished with meeting people is use your friends. Hang with them! Have fun!
2007-03-14 05:26:47
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answered by FaZizzle 7
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I find that I am very standoffish, especially if i think i might like someone, perhaps you shoud try being more open. And self-confidence is always attractive no matter what.
2007-03-14 05:27:53
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answered by Anonymous
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Do you approach anyone with conversation or smile and say hi to those you're interested in? This is 2007 - sometimes you have to make the first move.
2007-03-14 05:27:00
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answered by downinmn 5
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Ted Sturgeon said it like this:
"There is in certain living souls
A quality of loneliness unspeakable,
So great it must be shared
As company is shared by lesser beings.
Such a loneliness is mine; so know by this
That in immensity
There is one lonelier than you."
2007-03-14 05:56:27
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answered by credo quia est absurdum 7
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You are trying too hard at all the wrong places.
2007-03-14 05:25:58
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answered by דְבוֹרָה Devorah 5
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the harder you try the longer the wait feels, but it will just happen... so pre-occupy yourself with other things and mr/ms right will come around in no time.
2007-03-14 05:27:55
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answered by ragefury 3
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Thats hard to answer if we dont see you in action. But be patient it usually happens when you least expect it. When your not "pressing" for it to happen.
2007-03-14 05:27:54
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answered by Devdude 5
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