Confused signals?

Question

We r both married and say we will not have an affair nor r interestead in each other, however at work we are always joking talking, going for coffee. When talking to me she often touches me and sometimes hesitates touching me. When we work we work but when we play we do just as hard. When talking to me she is often in my space and often appears jumpy and recently there have been things if you dont do this I will swueeze the juice outa u or what do I get if and insinuations of can I see then I say yes then she says grioss. When on the phone we talk and one of us will say we have to go or don't u have to go then we talk even more. We from time to time buy each other drinks and talk personal. This week she was late for a meeting and on entering the room walked up to me looking for a place to sit and looked lost as if I should have kept an open space. Generally she will always sit next to me. Is there something happening we cannot control or is this imagination.

Answer 1

If you are both married then you need to quit looking for hopeful signs from this lady.

Answer 2

she is interested inyou but doen't want to jeoperidize her home life....she may have religious beliefs about adultery if not then approach her.....if she wants it like you do then do it once and not let anyone know and see what comes of it..you may be married but she may be your happily ever after!

Answer 3

sounds to me like the affair has already started.

Answer 4

Stop playing with fire.

Answer 5

please. you can control it. that's what marrigae vows are about.