Okay, so yesterday some people in band went on a field trip to this competition. Me and boyfriend sat together around some of my friends and some of his own friends, and we had a great time! On the way back, he asked me if there was something I needed to tell him about. I shook my head, having no idea what he was talking about, and he said that some people were telling him how I was about to break up with him. That was definitely not true, but he insisted that lots of people had been telling him last Thursday and Friday that I was going to call the relationship quits! I have no idea who would do such a thing, and I promised him that the rumor was NOT true and he said okay. However, it was still obvious that he doesn't fully believe me, even though I swore that I wasn't and even almost started crying! He put his arm around me to try and get me to stop, but just knowing that his trust may be gone over a LIE is just unfair. How do I get him to believe me and trust me again? Help me! <3
2007-03-14 05:08:39 · 8 answers · asked by The Prep 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont worry about it. If he really likes you and cares for you he will believe you over them any day. It might have hurt his feelings a little, but all you have to do is give him a little attention and he'll forget about it.
2007-03-14 05:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by mixedup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First in a relationship you have to have trust or there is nothing. But just maybe people are just trying to break ya'll up because they're just jealous. This type of thing happens all the time in an teenage life. People just do it to start stuff. But as fore your boyfriend yoou just gotta show him how much you really truely care and feel. Then the rest is up to him.
2007-03-14 05:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by iluvsuperman84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
igure out who was the one who told him and bring that person to him and ask if they’re the ones who told him. If they say no, ur bf would know and they’re going to be trapped. Just get someone to help you figure out who it was. Don’t get into a mode like, “If I was going to break up with you, I would’ve done it yesterday.” That’s way off. Get the culprit(s) and expose them in front of u and ur bf, well that’s what I did and it saved my relationship. If not, write him a poem saying how much this is affecting u and how much u miss him and how he doesn’t believe anymore. Stuff like that. Get him thinking. That’s what I did, the second time. Yea, ppl tried breaking us up 2 times, but hey, NOW WHAT? Anywayz, good luck!! I hope it turns out great!
2007-03-14 05:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by ღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're honestly telling the truth, and you weren't going to break up with him, don't worry about it so much, if he doesn't trust you than maybe you should find someone who is mature, and doesn't easily fall for rumors. Just think what if the rumor was about you sleeping with someone, would he believe it then? You don't need to be with someone so gullible. Here's another thought maybe he made it up because he's not man enough to ask you himself, if you're still interested in him or not. My suggestion would be to reassure him of your love, and continue to be yourself, if that doesn't work. Maybe it's time to move on.
2007-03-14 05:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by sweetstlouis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly in some unspecified time sooner or later yet on the prompt i do not imagine i'd nicely be in a dedicated relationship in any respect. i have tried it yet i realized i'm no longer waiting to dedicate to everyone male or lady on the prompt. i'm too in contact in both sexes so i could not be with a guy without needing a woman or be with a woman without needing a guy.
2016-12-02 00:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In time he will.
2007-03-14 05:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont lie to him ever (not saying u do) tell him how much u love him and give him head
2007-03-14 05:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how much you love him and give him head, some really good head and swallow his *** too.
2007-03-14 05:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋