I have dated this girl twice, I even stayed at her house once. We 2nd based it and thats all....no sex. I think we get along. I see in her that she likes me and I am totally nuts about her...I haven't felt like this in like 5 years and I do not want to mess this up. She invites me to places and when I respond she then changes and either ignores me or tells me that she cant go anymore. What can I do to grab her attention and show her what I am really about in order for her to fall for me like I already am for her?
2007-03-14 05:06:04 · 20 answers · asked by Kekaz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't "make " someone fall on love with you. You need to be honest with her and just communicate and ask her what her feelings are...does she want to date you? she may have other drama going on you know nothing about.
2007-03-14 05:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ken R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds funny, but the best way you could grab her attention is to not pay as much attention to her. When she invites you someplace, tell her you need to think about it. She seems to like you but isn't crazy about you. I would not give in to her every invite and all, which will make her wonder if you like her. And when you do go out with her, make sure you guys have the bet time. Make her laugh, but don't try too hard. Don't smother her with affection, instead tease her with it. I think it's important to know, that youcna't make anyone fall in love with you but since you guys already have a friendship and a foundation, I'm just giving you tips on how you could get it to develop! Good luck!
2007-03-14 05:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by lovin' life... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are complicated, or shalll i say human beings, sometimes alot is too much and a little is not good enough. it's all about chemistry and body language to be honest. There's nothing wrong with not having nothing in common or everthing it's just a matter of how good your timing is, and how not to fall into the same old cliche' of men hitting on chicks. Be your own person and don't always jump to everything at a crack's whip, pace yourself. Don't be too predictable. develope your own persona like no other and things will happen. Everyone is their own person. there's always someone for somebody.
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2007-03-14 05:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by cloudrat7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but you may not be the only iron that she has in the fire, if she blows you off after inviting you to go somewhere. It's nothing wrong with that, as you guys are not seriously dating yet, but just be honest with her and tell her how you feel, or take the initiative and invite her to do something, then confirm a couple of days before to make sure that she will still be able to go. Let her know that you want to take your dating relationship to the next level and be exclusive.
2007-03-14 05:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by Queen Bee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have fallen in love with her just because of who she is. If the feeling isn't mutual, then nothing you can say or do will MAKE a person fall in love with you. If she is making last minute changes after setting up dates with you, then I think she is already telling you (not too subtley I might add) that she doesn't really care if she hurts your feelings. Is this really the type of gal you want to fall for?
2007-03-14 05:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by carnivale4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and Foremost, you cannot make anyone fall in love with you. There are a lot of things you could do to reassure her that you like her but maybe youre moving too fast. Just play it cool, dont rush. I'm sure she likes you. Give her time, things will work out.
2007-03-14 05:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by MRG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make someone fall in love with you,and if you are crowding her space you will totally loose. Give some space and time and be her friend,she may never feel the way you do and if you push to hard she may run you off.
2007-03-14 05:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never ever in a million years MAKE a girl fall in love with you.
2007-03-14 05:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by Uncle Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you can't make a girl fall in love with you she has to want to. But try not to drool ali over her at least in front of her. Im sure she likes you, but you just have to give it time. If it was meant to happen it will but you have to let it.
2007-03-14 05:13:00 · answer #9 · answered by iluvsuperman84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...well tell me how do i make a guy fall in love with me, and i will give you TWO PAGES of how to make a girl fall in love with you. I promise, i gave it to a guy friend before--he got a girlfirend in 2 weeks. But i still dont know how to make guys fall in love with me. Email me k? :)
2007-03-14 05:11:06 · answer #10 · answered by BabyPosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋