2007-03-14 04:50:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take your time and wait until you know for whom your feelings are stronger and then u can decide.
2007-03-14 04:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by swyt09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing you must be sure about is whether you really love your boyfriend or the feeling for an old school flame. Should you want a relationship with an old flame then you will have to face up to the relationship with your boyfriend and let him go, but if you wish to keep the relationship with your boyfriend then you need to stay commited to him and don't try to rekindle a relationship that might not go anywhere. So you and the old flame have fun but think about what would happen if your boyfriend found out, he would not be very happy that is for sure. Knowing what you priorities are will help you decide what is really important and what is not.
2007-03-14 05:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously don't love your boyfriend as much as you think you do or you wouldn't be tempted by another guy.
Ask yourself why you didn't hook up with this guy while you were both in highschool and single still. And - don't always assume the grass is greener on the other side - of course things are fun "in the beginning".
Why don't you try doing something different/fun with your current boyfriend. But if things don't improve than get out while you can...no point leading him on if you're not serious.
2007-03-14 04:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of these feelings, and most likely both, aren't actually love. You just don't know what love is. What you really mean is you care about your bf, but you really like your old friend from school.
Obviously if you care abotu your bf, you'll put this other guy in the past. But I can already tell your not going to do that, so have fun with your old friend.
2007-03-14 04:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by Josh B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i stayed with my last boyfriend a year too long because i thought i was still in love with him. but i think that when you spend a lot of time with someone and they become your best friend, sometimes you fall out of love with them but you still love them as a friend. does that make sense? i hope so. if you have more fun with this other guy, maybe he's the one for you and it's time to move on from your boyfriend. think about it. who would you rather hang out with?
2007-03-14 04:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by one sexy biatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 22:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the question? obviously you still had feelings for your old friend that you never got over that is why it was so easy for you to fall for him. You have to be honest with yourself and figure out what you want. it's not right to string the person you don't want to be with along. this cause for some soul searching. Weigh the options of being with them. It's about being happy and comfortable. Whoever makes you happy and whoever makes you feel comfortable that's who you should be with. If they both make you feel that way then your **** out of luck and that's just being real with you.
2007-03-14 04:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by vanillaswril 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...keep your head on straight about this...your old friend is probably exciting and more interesting cause your regular relationship is like most other relationships...old and boring...just take a step back and wiegh out your options, you know that reblosseming relationship is likely to be old and boring one day too...its just how relationships work...your best bet for happiness, is to ask yourself, which is more compatable and the overall better person...but just dont cheat get you priorityies straight.
2007-03-14 04:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
correction you like your boyfriend because if you loved him you wouldn't be doing him wrong. your using the word love you should be using the word like. By what you say you just like the second guy more. If your boyfriend is a good guy and has been a good boyfriend to you. You should be ashamed of yourself.
2007-03-14 04:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by BarbaraJean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on. you already know there is a huge difference between loving someone and being in love with them.
2007-03-14 04:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by mikey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have more fun and connect more with the other guy, keep talking to him, the next time ou and ur bf fight, dump him for the other guy.
2007-03-14 04:53:14 · answer #11 · answered by thisxlifexisntxrealx2006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋