My gf of 2 years and I had a big fight last night. I think we might break up today. I have a kid from another girl who is now dead...and my current just isn't into this situation. She says she is, and that its all good, but I can just tell she doesn't like it. She never wants to do anything with me and my kid...just me alone. I don't know what to do....
2007-03-14 04:49:56 · 6 answers · asked by well_man_hung 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
children come first....enough said
2007-03-14 04:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by twisted2879 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isn't into you or your kid then is the relationship really worth the trouble. Most single parents want someone you will adore their kids and love them too, if she isn't the girl that does that for you then she shouldn't be allowed to have the priviledge of having your love. Find someone who will enjoy hanging out and enjoy spending time the two of you and you will be a lot happier. You can't change those who don't want to be, don't waste time that you could be spending finding someone who will truly make you happy.
2007-03-14 11:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by Emily M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This must be really hard for you. If someone knows how it feels to break up with someone you love is me. If you love her try to fix this, dont let her go. You have a kid that doesnt mean is the end of the world your not the only one. Talk to her and find out what is bodering her. Do it, or later on you will regret not fixing it or atleast rying to fix it.
GOOD LUCK BUDDY!!
2007-03-14 12:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jaizmin P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that the kid needs to be yours and her life. did you ever consider her adopting your child? well i mean, if you plan on being together forever. communication is key!! talk to her...tell her how you feel. don't ignore the situation. and say to her "what if you had a kid from another man, you'd want me to love it just as much as you, you wouldnt want me to blow him/her off"
2007-03-14 11:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she ain't liking ur kid then she gotz to gooo! i'm sorry but that's not right. she is bogus for that. ur not the one doing anything wrong, it's her. so if anything u should break up with her. i mean because wonder if ya'll do stay together. she's not going to spend time with ur kid, or do anthing with him/her. so yeah dump her
2007-03-14 11:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by •°iiFia1125°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry about your kids mom..but if your recent lady isnt down with kid situation you souldnt be down with her. you and the kid are together (one package) so if she dont like it there are other people out there for you. I know you care for her and that she cares for you but does she like the kid?
2007-03-14 11:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by angelofmusic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋