so pretty much everyday, i see my boyfriend for like 15 mins and we cuddle and stuff, or we'll just sit down next to eachother and talk about random stuff.. and like it seems like almost everyday, (he'll hate me for saying this lol) he gets a you-know-what on.
and like it goes away, after i kiss him or hug him really tight, like in a good loving way.
i kind of get a little whoo-hoo myself.. and i was wondering if this happens to other people to, and what do you do to make it go away. I mean, when i'm at his house and we are alone, i dont care, but since he has to leave and i dont see him until a couple hours later at school, what can i do, so i dont feel all uncomfortable.. i mean like, ok i'm confusing you guys i'm sure,, but does anyone get it??
please help
*The yahoo wouldn't let me enter the real words i was going to put.. sorry if your confused.
2007-03-14 04:47:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i see wat ur saying. but um that's completely normal. everyone goes through that. u can't just make it go away, it's natural. it happens to me all the time too. lol. but yeah ur not the only one going through that honey. it's a good thing!
2007-03-14 04:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by •°iiFia1125°• 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that has happend to me wit my ex. Just about all the time. But thats when we kiss and cuddle and junk. We were pretty crazy like that. I'm sure she felt the same way.
2007-03-14 11:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's attracted to you, that's great! Don't read too much into it, either, stuff like that's kinda hard to control. If it's not bugging him, then let it go - to not feel uncomfortable, just remind yourself that he's your boyfriend and he likes you and he's attracted to you - so you can feel good and happy about that... and don't worry about the rest of it.
2007-03-14 11:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by Megs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do anything that causes a "you know what"? That is just teasing. Why do that to yourself or to him? I think you could do something else, which would not cause this problem. Sounds to me like you LIKE to do this to him. That's kind of mean. Yet, I think it is great of him not to PUSH anything with you. He sounds like a real keeper to me! But, YOU need to ease up a little. Just enjoy your time together, and don't "pet" so heavily. You have plenty of time for that in the future.
2007-03-14 11:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a perfectly norman reaction. Be glad it's happening. The only real way to make it go away is probably further than you are willing to go at this stage.
2007-03-14 11:51:49 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel C 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yea....it happens to many people. It's in the human nature...if you wanna make it go away do something playful and act like kids.
2007-03-14 11:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by swyt09 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is just a fact of life. Do what you want to do when you have the time. Otherwise, let him deal with it.
2007-03-14 11:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexual attraction is normal.
be glad you have it!
it's not going to hurt your boyfriend to get a you-know-what.
that's normal too!
2007-03-14 11:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's NORMAL...
You are just getting aroused...think of Baseball!
2007-03-14 11:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its gonna happen its natural just tuck it away
2007-03-14 11:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by g_rant07 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋