ok when i walk up to a 13 yr old girl (at church) tonight what do i say. i like her. im 13 also. see i figure i just want to be friends cuz my parents don't let me date anyways. so how do i make it seem that i don't want a girlfriend but i want a friend who i can hang with, joke with, you know a best friend kind of friend.
so my question is "what should i say to her to get her to be my friend?" i know her name is sarah (i asked her last week) she is like an inch or so shorter than me.
2007-03-14 04:41:00 · 7 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
need step by step instructions
2007-03-14 04:43:18 · update #1
be very careful because girls sometimes take things the wrong way ... and men sometimes give off the wrong impression ... i feel like if you try talking to her even as a friend .. she will take it the wrong way - she may think you like her.
why are you so insistent on being her friend?
if you just want to be friends - try to somehow get involved with her and try to talk to her like " what school do you go to? " bla bla try to have a mutual friend connect you somehow.
or while you guys are doing something at church sit by her and start a conversation.
hope this helps ! good luck. just be careful as i said -- you dont want to become her friend - only to find out she has a crush on you and bla bla. so make suree you only give off FRIEND signals - which may be kind of hard.
2007-03-14 04:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just explain to your friend that you are really to young to date. but that you want to be friends. and see where it goes from there.
You are right in not dating at your age. do you know how many girls and boys in this country that are already parents.
You need to be friends and some day you will be ready to date. but the most important thing is for you both to get your education. get a carreer and then you will be able to support your self and have fun.
2007-03-14 04:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you basically answered you're own question.Walk up to her and give her you're name tell her you want her for a friend and that you're parents don't let you date and you would really like to know her as a friend. It is nice to see a young gentlemen who just wants a girl for a friend first. good luck
2007-03-14 04:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should start out by just saying "hey" or " how are you?" or somehting like that. find something that you are both interested and talk about it...if she is talking about something to her friend and you over hear them talking about it and you have something to say about the topic then do! it's really kinda hard and easy at the same time...weird...i know but you'll get the hang of it.
2007-03-14 04:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by hannahgirl333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, little buddy, why don't you just talk to her. Ask her about school, or compliment her clothes, break the ice, and just be yourself.
Thing is, you want your girlfriend to be your best friend. Really.
2007-03-14 04:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some thing similiar ensue to my cousin. the extra youthful lady became inlove with my cousin and he didnt want he, he only had to be acquaintances. she didnt like that and instructed goverment he raped her/assult her. he might by no ability.and we stored textmessages how she stalked him. yet besides,if he's shown responsible, he possibly do jailtime. yet whilst he isnt. his checklist is clean
2016-10-18 08:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you like her shoes.
2007-03-14 04:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by DoubleD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋