my ex and i broke up about 4 months ago. i didn't want to be friends because i found out that he was not who he says he was. but he called me again yesterday and was asking me to give him a chance; i refused. i told him he didn't deserve to my friend but it was so hurtful because he didn't understand why i needed to let him go. he tried to tell me how amazing he thought i was and any guy would be crazy to not want to be with me which i really didn't understand. am i crazy for not wanting to be his friend again?
2007-03-14 04:39:11 · 1 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*i told him i didn't want to be friends again because i felt as if if we were, i would judt end up falling for him again. he asked what was wrong with that. he continued on in saying that he would want to date me again if it came to that. and he also said he was jealous (according to him it was "friendly jealousy") when i told him that i had dated and kissed this particular person. he also explained that he understood some of the feelings i had during our relationship like the jealousy that i had because of the fact that he was always surrounded by women.
2007-03-14 04:42:32 · update #1
You are right most of the time you cannot be friends. it ends up hurting you all over again. just tell him to give it up.
2007-03-14 04:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mary B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋