I've seen this guy a couple times this past month. And at the start I was forward about my intentions and what not. But it's going so slow. Sometimes I think we are casually dating othertimes it seems like we are just friends hanging out.
he's coming over tonight to watch a movie (i get advance screeners in the mail), how can i bring up all this, and straigthen things out (at least for me).
2007-03-14 04:31:05 · 8 answers · asked by naturegg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him about it! Say "Listen, I really like that our friendship has made us close, but I'm wondering if there is a chance we'll become more" .....
Explain that you dont want to ruin the friendship you have now, but that if there's a chance he was interested you think it'd be a great thing.. to be a couple.
Or something like that. Communication is Key! Guys dont pick up on hints (Sorry guys) but most dont. ha. So just straight up ask him!
Good luck!
2007-03-14 04:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by InLoveandWar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SLOW? Most people complain about a relationship going too fast! Haha, all jokes aside, this should be a lot easier than you think. He, if he's a good guy, probably does not want to do anything that you aren't uncomfortable with, and he's not going to take it any further than you're willing to. He's most likely actually looking out for YOUR best interests (you should be happy he's so considerate, haha)! In all my relationships, I've had to judge just how fast or slow to take things, because everybody is different, but if you just sit him down tonight and let him know how you feel, you should be completely fine.
Good luck!
2007-03-14 11:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by funkyfreshradiofree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy the friendship that you have and if things progress further then thats great. sometimes it takes longer for two people to connect the way you would probably like but have patience and if nothing else happens then you have a really good friend.
2007-03-14 11:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. Ask him what he really wants from this relationship and tell him what u want. It's important to make sure that ur on the same page.
2007-03-14 11:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD TALK ABOUT IT WHEN HE COMES OVER TONIGHT. ASK HIM "WHAT ARE WE". IF HE IS NOT INTERESTING IN BE MORE THAN JUST FRIENDS YOU NEED TO KNOW SO YOU COULD MOVE ON. BEFORE THE MOVIE AFTER THE MOVIE...IT REALLY DOESN'T MATTER. UNLESS HE DOESN'T LIKE YOU LIKE THAT....IT COULD RUIN THE NIGHT. GOOD LUCK.....I WOULD LOVE TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENS
2007-03-14 11:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by tatyana17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him.. You might want to talk to him about the situation. You don't want to assume or anything cause that can cause problems in the future.
2007-03-14 11:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by *SeXyB* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just straight up ask him are we dating or waht
2007-03-14 11:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by Melly. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him the truth, and if he can't deal with it then it's not meant to be.
2007-03-14 11:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by sisco10820001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋