I was asleep one night and my guy woke me up to have sex and it was 3 hours before I had to work I said NO. He snapped and said he hated me I was worthless etc. does he mean it do I need to leave????
2007-03-14 04:25:53 · 13 answers · asked by Kristina G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow! It sounds like you need to have a long talk with this guy about his drinking habits. Sit him down SOBER and remind him of what he said to you. Make sure he's EXTREMELY apologetic and willing to "change his ways", and give it one more chance... if it happens again, leave! It was a really crappy thing of him to do, but sometimes drunk people just screw up really bad.
If this is something that has happened before, disregard my previous comments and pack your things.
2007-03-14 04:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He most certainly does mean it. You are nothing more than a means to an end to this monster. As long as you allow him to devour your body at will, you serve his purpose. Whenever you resist him, he reveals the truth about himself. He has no real love for you, or anyone else (which you probably already know, but don't want to admit). You are sleeping with satan himself and you need to leave.
2007-03-14 04:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems such as you're greater effective off devoid of her. stay is going on and you'd be able to desire to handle it. I recommend attempting to fulfill new human beings devoid of purpose of dating. Make some acquaintances and attempt to calm down your existence. it form of feels you're letting this woman administration you, and that's unacceptable. I understand which you enjoyed her, in spite of the indisputable fact that it happens to all people in some unspecified time interior the destiny of their existence. Sucks, i recognize. learn who you're and what you opt for out of existence and take steps from there. i would not get decrease back into the dating scene any time quickly when you consider which you desire a restoration era. as quickly as back, make some acquaintances of the alternative intercourse, locate new human beings to talk to. good success
2016-10-02 02:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him into AA and anger management. Ask him when he is sober if he meant it, if it continues to happen Id say goodbye. Some people can't handle the drinking like others, makes them nasty, I want to wish you good luck and don't take what he says in a drunken stupor to heart.
2007-03-14 04:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it made him mad because you rejected him Still thats no excuse fot thode choice of words.Tell him ti quit his drinking or your outa there.If ya choose leave him for awhile till he quits drinking or drasticly changes his attitude.But consider leaving because i think it could only get worser if it continies.And you might not get a chance to leave.I wish ya the best .
2007-03-14 04:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by walter_nahbexie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would say that you need to leave no man is worth your tears and the one that is wont make you cry i think that he is a little on the demanding side if he wants that so early in the mouring
2007-03-14 04:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by baby girl 101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he need's to grow up before he can handle a relationship
2007-03-14 04:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Immediately. Anyone who calls you names because you won't have sex with them is immature and selfish. Get out now. Good luck.
2007-03-14 04:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by Laneymom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
doesnt matter is your married or single ...if you say no that should be enough.
if your man is violent then you should get of this relationship asap. if he loved you and cared about you then he would not be calling you names and saying he hated you.
i would seriously consider leaving him before you get hurt.
2007-03-14 04:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy always tells the truth when he's drunk. sorry, and you are definitely not his "sex-maid". give the guy the BOOT girlfriend!
2007-03-14 04:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋