My Prostitute Mom sold my precious memories of my deceased boyfriend for drugs!?

Question

All I had was a a case of cds(about 100)and dvds we used to watch 2gether and a rainbow steel pocket knife of his and she sold them for crack. I'm so upset and angry.She comes and takes a bath and goes back out (she a prostitute as well,I saw an imprint of some cds in her purse and I take a look and it's one of the ones my boyfriend gave me before his death, I know it's mine cuzit has my name and a note he wrote written on it. I took it out and ran and told my aunt she asked if she took my cds she lied and said lied and said no.I'm so hurt cuz when he was living she was jealous cuz he was a drug dealer (he was changin his life), and he had taken care of me and paid my way threw school more than she even has done in my entire life.It gets worst.As soon as I got the one cd back out i feel asleep and broke it!I dont know what's going on but I have the worst of luck and all I wanted to do was cherish his memories, and she stole them..and the one I did get,broke!Plz offer encouragement.

Yes, I still have pictures of him...but when someone dies,everything becomes important, cuz u can never get that person back. I loved that man with all my heart and she wasn't supportive when he died. She didnt even go to the funeral

Answer 1

Hey nesia9! www.battlecry.org (Ron Luce) runs this youth action ministry, ATF.tv as well! Also Al Denson or Denison(not sure) , start on-line searches for youth ministries, radio talk and prayer lines especially at night. Hear are some others, www.mainplaceyouth.org-(It's a 1yr. program for drug use and troubled teens, 620-532-2681), Thunder Ranch,www.sisterkeeper.com-(hurt and violated women), www.TDjakes.org-1800bishop2, www.paulawhite.org(counsel, for all people,www.joycemeyers.org or www.enjoyingeverydaylife.org(great counselingChristian) and womens ministry) a home and school for children who fall through the systems cracks [e-mail], Family Today-1800 358-0329, Fltoday.com or org, Praise In The Night(Steve Solomon)talk line-1800 727-7486, Teenmania.org-1888 482-fire, anyway there are tons of Christian Help Ministries out there, If you want something you've never had you need to do something you've never done! I'm sure your boyfriend who has passed would agree, it seems he was reaching out before he died, and things, are never to be your source for peace, joy, and contentment sweetheart, Only The Lord can fill the God hole in your heart, He is a Living God and will breath His everlasting Life and Love into your desperate heart if you'll call out to Him, He will in no way cast you out! He came to seek and save the lost, and piad the debt for all our sins with His own blood, The Heavenly Father says, This is my beloved Son in whom I Am well pleased! It is by Grace(His undeserved favor and power working on your behalf) through FAITH(believing,trusting in, and adhereing to His finished work on the cross, and expecting that what you ask for according to His Word,in His name, though unseen will come to pass) this is how you receive Salvation, By Faith In Him who Loves you and gave Himself for you, a living sacrifice for your sins and your moms as well, He lose His body He laid it down freely of His own will, only to pick it up again and He Live to make intercession for us as we speak! He said, Behold I stand at The Door and knock, ALL who answer The door I will come into Him and sup with him and he with me! And whoever Seeks Me, will find Me, Whoever knocks, The Door will open wide to them, so little lady , it's time to go forward into The Answer, His name is Yeshua(in Hebrew) that is Jesus The Messiah! Get yourslf an easy to read Bible,NIV or ERVversion is good to start, read john it will introduce you to your Father in heaven not in a religious traditional man made way, but in Spirit and in Truth! And those who worship Him must worship Him in Spirit and in Truth!! Don't be afraid of Him, because you think your not good enough, THAT's THE VERY REASON HE CAME, INTO THE WORLD, to make payment with His own spotless blood! The Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world, to all who receive Him! He made a way for mankind to have access once again as they did in the beginning, before the fall of mankind. Do you see! He came to rescue us from ourselves, and being slaves to sin and bondage! In Him there is liberty and freedom to Live in actual Light and Assurance not only in this present earth but into Life after this! He is all you need to be healty, at peace,and truly confident in His Everlasting Love which has been poured out for you beloved! Now, choose Life and Blessing, and Him alone to fill you with His own Holy Spirit and Spiritual Gifts that are with out repentance(He won't ever take them back). He is a Good Father and Shepard of His Flock, who never makes a mistake, or grows tired, or abandons you if you mess up again, come running back to His throne of Grace, confess and stat again, every moment is new as we repent sincerely and honestly in His presence! Find a contemporary Christian radio station, praise and worship, and watch your emotions and attitude begin to move into His presence and seek understanding of His Word more and more! Just do it! You'll never regret it, it's also what your boyfriend would have wanted as well! And know this, you are loved with The precious Love of The Only begotten Son of God who bids you COME!! I love you beloved and am praying over this letter now!! If I can help anymore, I'm [e-mail] ......And, This Is Eternal Life, to Know Him and The One He Sent!

Answer 2

Lets' start with your mom. Try to understand that a drug addict is out of control and would steal anything from anyone to get a fix. It's not really about her trying to hurt you. It's sad but true and you have to decide if and how you're going to continue living with her under those circumstances. I'm sorry that your boyfriend has passed away, leaving you so sad. I won't even comment on the fact that he was a drug dealer, because something tells me you already know what you really have to do in the future. Now, in a strange way, there is a message in everything that's going on in your house. I think the "powers" are telling you that you need to literally "clean house" and drum up the strength to move on. Shed all the bad things from the past and move on to a cleaner, better life. Take whatever pleasant memories you had with your b/f. You don't need the videos or material things to remember him. Everything you need is in your heart. Good luck my dear.

Answer 3

I really don't know alot about your life so im going to do my best to give you some advice to help you. Do you have any family that maybe could help you and let you and your little sister live with them. Or if your old enough to move out and get away from that situation then maybe it is best for you to take your lil sis and move out and get your own place. And maybe talk to a lawyer or someone and ask if you could get custody of your lil sis so that she can be taken out of that situation and go move with you. Go on a make a better life for yourself and dont worry about what she does anymore beause you don't deserve to have to live like that. And cherish all the memories you have of you and your boyfriend that is something that she can never take away from you is your memories that the two of you had shared before he passed away. And i am very sorry for you loss and i hope this helps you in some way and i wish you the very best of luck with this

Answer 4

Shortly after my grandmothers death my father met a man who inherited about $1000 dollars from his own mothers estate which was worth well over $7 million. The reason he got so little was because he and his two siblings fought for the bulk of inheritence. Almost all the money went to lawyers. my grandmother's estate, worth about $600,000 was divided equally among her six children. Each got about $100,000. The moral of the story, don't put too much weight in physical objects. Cherish the memories you had with your boyfriend and hold on to those. I will still be hard when something happens to the momentos of your past, but it will be easier. On a side note, do everything in your power to get away from your mother, she does not sound like a good person to be around.

Answer 5

I don't know how old you are, but if you are old enough then I suggest you get away from your Mother and the life she is living. You need to separate yourself from her so as to not go down the same path. Please, please try to go as far as you can in the opposite direction. Learn from the life you have seen your Mother live. As far as the stolen cds and videos, I know this really hurts you, but the real memories do not lie in those things, they are within your mind and heart and no one can ever take that from you. I know, because I am a widow of 4 years. I loved my husband very much and I treasure the memories we made together. This is what I hold on to. I really hope you will consider trying to move out and move forward. If you are too young to be on your own, then perhaps there is a family member that would take you in? God bless you!

Answer 6

Memories,

That is material things you are talking about. Yes your mother did wrong and on crack? You know that she has a big problem and will steal the under wears you have if she could.

I had a friend that used heroin, I left him at my apartment when my sister and I went shopping, didn't think anything of it. My big screen TV was gone! Honestly, I was laughing how could anyone take that TV out with out anyone seeing anything and my friend denied it. Well that was the last time I saw my TV and my friend. You lose confidence when you try and try but honestly they are hurting themselves.

Seek help for yourself, with a counselor ,friend, aunt.
Don't give up on yourself. You will always cherish your memories with boyfriend in your heart. No one can take that away!

Smile

Answer 7

I'm sorry for your loss and predicament.Your mom has addiction problems,if she was not on crack she would not of done that to you.Forgive her.She is the only mom ya got.My mom left us in foster homes cause she choose to drink.But i love her dearly still.You have good memories nobody can take from you.And your boyfriend is waiting your day to come to the otherside.So don't hurry or commit suicide whatever bad comes to your mind.Live and learn thats why we are here.Please Forgive.It's the only way you'll find a piece of mind and the Lord will Smile on you.Peace

Answer 8

You and your family need counseling, what a life to live. A prosittute mom, dead drug dealer boyfriend and an aunt that except this way of life. What a healthy environment.

Answer 9

Pray everyday to god he will hear you and fix every problem you have with your mom.No body's perfect and people make mistakes just forgive your mom you will fell a lot better in the long run i promise and you are doing a great job dealing with the problem if it gets any worse if you want try to help her find help if she wants it if she don't want it don't push it.well love ya like a sista keep ya head up girl.

Answer 10

it's ok, your not alone. your mother should change her life as well, its good money being a prostitute but its not fair to you and she could get something and become sopmeone she never wanted to become what i would do sweetie, is when shes out get her friends and family around who want her to change her life as well and create an intercention and maybe even send her to rehab and than when shes straight again tell her how you feel and how it was damaging you and what she did

Answer 11

She sound's like she needs help getting off of drugs. They are controlling her mind. She knows not what she does. If she ever gets clean, make sure you remind her of all of the things that drugs lead her to do.