2007-03-14 03:50:52 · 19 answers · asked by sight 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't "make" them love you but you probably can create feelings of appreciation within a person and help that person to see and understand how committed you are to treating that person with respect and affection. Just let your actions speak for you. Always be respectful and thoughtful and just be yourself. Develop a friendship as a foundation. Try to not let your emotions get in the way and cause you to lose your head. Take initiative but don't be so aggressive in pursuing the person that you turn that person off. Just always be there for that person and be real and sincere and, if it's in the stars, the person will fall in love. If not, at least you will have gained a friend you care about. Good luck
2007-03-14 03:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by SUGAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, YOU CAN GET SOMEONE ELSE TO BE INTERESTED IN YOU!!!!
I think that others are misreading your question to be, "How do I get someone to love me?" That is NOT what you are asking. You are asking how do I get someone to notice you, and there are at least 25 ways to do that
After a lof of research, I created a survey that contains a list of the twenty-five actions that indicate someone is interested in you. If you take the list of these actions and do them, the other person will, indeed, notice you.
Click on http://www.dr-rjp.com/lovetest.html and concentrate on doing as many of the actions that you can do on your own.
The very first step in getting a stranger to become interested in you is to capture their attention, and these survey items have been shown to do just that.
2007-03-14 04:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by DrRJP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One does not "make" someone show interest. One is either attractive or not. Learning to communicate in a cohesive sentence would be a good idea!
Be reasonable if you loved someone you would not want to "make" them do anything.
If you want to manifest attraction then you must make yourself intelligent and charming then the object of your affections and many others will be attracted to you and want to spend time with you. That is if you want a mature, intelligent mutual relationship. If you want a pathetic one night stand you can lower your dignity and act the fool.
2007-03-14 03:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really MAKE someone be interested in you.
But if I were you I would try to be an interesting person while being myself. Know that if they are not interested you can't force the issue.
I find it interesting that you said that you love this person but they are not interested in you. I would caution about giving your "relationship love" away so easily.
2007-03-14 03:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by Today is the Day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, firstly they need to know you are there and secondly they should be made aware that there is an interest. Especially when the loved person might be shy they need to be encouraged to express their interest, otherwise they might not dare and believe noone is interested in them. If the person is not shy, it cannot do them any harm if you declare yourself in one way or another (bump into them, flirt with it). Simply: you will have to conquer your own fear and shyness (if that is your trouble). An easy way to show your interest is doint them a favour, extra easy when you work together. Good luck.
2007-03-14 03:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by Julia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone you love be interested with you. But you can be friends with someone you're interested. And if sparks fly, great! If not, hey, ain't it great to have another friend in your social circle. If there's no friendship to talk about, be cool about it. Do not fret over this. Be natural & be yourself. Reserve your feelings for someone special that deserves you.
2007-03-14 03:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've tried to get their attention and you're ignored move on and find someone else. IF that person is interested they'll come around. Just be happy and don't let someone else determine your happiness for you.
2007-03-14 03:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by noneofyourbizwax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't if they are not interested. You can try being nice to him/her and just be there for them. Tell that person how you feel and pray for their affection. But you can't really make somebody love you.
2007-03-14 03:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by High on Life!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. You can only be yourself and if they like you, they like you, if not, then you move on and maybe the next person will like you. You can't make someone love you.
2007-03-14 03:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the person know how much u like/love her/him?
2007-03-14 03:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by Lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋