Okay so i'm dating this guy right...its been 5 days today...anyways the only time i get to see him is of the mornings before school...and on my way to 4th block....Well this morning i was a little busy doing something so my friend went to where he normaly stands..and he like runs away from her...then i finish and we go back and he like walks away from me not even looking at me....ok so he goes outside with this chick that is just his friend (she likes him and knows that we are dating but she like pulls him away and goes somewhere else)....so i leave and go to my friends and just hang out...well he comes back and pulls my best friend to the side and was like im stressed out im afraid ill hurt her and stuff just let me do what i do of the mornings then ill come see yall so she was like ok and then told me...Do i have the right to be upset or what do i need to do please help me!! Keep in mind we are sophmores in high school so keep it understandable!
2007-03-14 03:43:31 · 8 answers · asked by amber j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to come off as a stick in the mud but you are a sophmore in high school. You are young and believe me when I say that it has only been five days you dont see him often so what is the attraction? You really should just focus on your studies and in college you will more then likely find a man you will be happy with. Dont let anyone pull you around on a chain like a lost puppy. Be true to yourself and only yourself because you are the only person you should be concerned about right now.
2007-03-14 03:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by dennis372006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter what grade ur in. u guys are dating so he has to respect u. and if he is runing away from u with a girl im sorry to me me that is the weidest formof respect i have ever seen. talk to him and tell him that u dont mind him having friends but that u will not let some girl take hi aways from u in the only time u have to c him. be strong if ur weak at the beggining he 'll end up doing anything he wants with u. honestly ask for the respect that u deserve who tha hell does he think he is... good luck !!!
2007-03-14 03:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some time you get a shy guy.Most the time its the women.And the girl is probable just a friend there are a lot on men that have women as friends and girls have guys as friends.He told your friend he didn't want to hurt you so he dose care but he probable want you to know she is just a friend. She many like him but if he liked her he would be going out with her and he is not he is with you.You should just tell him you would like to talk to him alone with no friends around and not on the phone you have do do it face to face so you can see his reaction.
2007-03-14 04:08:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all what i don't get is y is he stressed out? u need to talk to him urself and ask him what does he mean by thta. he should have told that to u not ur friend tha's just being a coward he sounds like a little boy u can do better
2007-03-14 03:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are not confident in your decisions others will see it and take advantage of ya.So set up your playing field and make your own rules.Especialy with guy's they are weak when it comes to girls.If you don't have him trained .I should'nt say it in that context but i can't think to hard this morn.Peace
2007-03-14 03:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by walter_nahbexie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should dump him because he acts pretty fishy. You want to be with a guy who doesn't respond to your flirting friends. His actions are too questionable. But it's hard to find that at your age.
2007-03-14 03:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u could do is find out where he lives and send him a letter if he wont talk to u or u could just go up to him and say your not leaving untill i talk to u and if all that fails then im sorry to say it he just isnt intrested [sorry]
2007-03-14 03:57:35 · answer #7 · answered by brandon g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have the right to be upset. It sounds like he might break up with you.
2007-03-14 03:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋