Mine is a group of 5 buddies.... one of them loves me... m 24... and i have a bf whom i m committed to... this friend of mine..Richard is a very nice guy, a little introvert and shy but its obvious to everyone that he loves me and doesnt like my getting friendly to anyone... now my bf is also a part of our group and he dislikes the behavior richard shows... moreover Richard doesnt like my being cloase to anyone else in the group... have tried talking to him and explaining things... but nothings improving... he even stars crying ... the situation is disturbing coz i consider him to be a friend... nothing seems to help...
2007-03-14 03:26:40 · 3 answers · asked by niks 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my bf is secure but acts a little possessive when he sees the kind of attention richard gives me... i have tried my best to talk to ruichard and now everyone in the group thinks m responsible for his sadness!
2007-03-14 04:08:02 · update #1
Emo maybe? If Richard is just a friend and you want nothing more with him then explain that to your boyfriend. You cannot help if someone else has feelings for you. You can tell Richard that the feelings are not mutual, and that you love your bf very much. Tell your bf how much you care for him and only him. Then tell him to get a backbone and quit crying so much.
2007-03-14 03:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by SuzyQ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing i can say is keep urs and his friendship space, let him go and find someone that hasnt have a boyfriend and is not in the friendship circle.
2007-03-14 10:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok all i can say is.... all you guys need to sit down and talk.
cause if you dont sort it out it may lead to something else.
someone will get heart broken or physically hurt.
2007-03-14 10:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by Hill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋