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Question

ok their is this boy i really like and we avoid each other but at this ball his mate kept on saying ask him to dance with me and that he says im having a good time but i said i dont want to ask him to dance and his mates keep on embarrassing me around him, but the thing me and this boy neva lyk talk to each im not sure wht this means, ive said hi hi to him and he responds but we never go up to each other and talk, do you think he fancies me or hes not intersted? he knows i like him and his mates embarrass me in front of him and he doesnt do anything. and his mates talk about him to me when i go up to them. and another thing he talks to other girls more but when hes around me he doesnt talk to me that much i feel left out and sometimes he says oh i like her as a mate but im shy around, and evrytime i see him he looks down or allover the place, just dont know what it means can you help. he never been out with a girl before and everyone says i should move on that he doesnt fancy me.

he said are friendship is alright to my mates but he gets shy around me.

Answer 1

Slip a note in his locker(if he has one) that says meet me somewhere.If he comes talk to him about how he just ignores you and how you feel. If he doesn't come you should just move on.

Answer 2

First things first just becasue he talks to other girls doesnt mean her fancies them, maybe he is too nervous to start a conversation with you. Go over to him and make the first move and start talking about anything, teachers, celebrities, the weather. If u dont do the first move and can see that he is too scared to do the first move then move in, u dont want to sit there all the time lookin at him thinkin what if?

Just go and do it girl, u either get 2 get friends or even more

Answer 3

ok, you sound young but grown men play this game too, so let me tell you this. He doesn't like you, but he likes that you like him. It's like an ego boost for him. Are you doing anything for him? Like maybe helping with homework or something, if you are he's going to take advantage of the fact that you like him just to use you to get what he wants. He's not going to come up and tell you that but that may be the case.

If that bothers you then I say try to limit your contact with him as much as possible & try to meet other guys. Boys are stupid, so he doesn't know how to tell you how he feels and he probably doesn't want to hurt your feelings. He only playing games. I'm sorry that you're going through this but it's best to just let it go.

Answer 4

Hi

Ask him yourself and see what he says, if he says no then its no and at least you know then. Boys can be as shy as us girls at times. Maybe he does not have the confidence to ask you out or talk to you as he might like you.
Go a head and ask him out.

Oh by the way GOOD LUCK

Answer 5

i think that he will probably never talk to you, not because he wouldn't like to, but because he's afraid of the teasing he would get from is friends! He doesn't sound like he has a backbone or a mind of his own. i say forget it and move on.

Answer 6

Move on

Answer 7

Rathr than ask the world and his dog, just ask HIM, he's the only person who knows the answer

Answer 8

i think he does like you but just doesn't know what to do, ask him to go for a coffee, he can only say no and if he says yes then take it from there

Answer 9

find a better looking lad he not worth wasting your time on .

Answer 10

Yes.. its not worth it. If he cant grow balls and speak to you... just leave it alone.