2007-03-14 03:21:12 · 14 answers · asked by durhamlau 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should forgive him, because holding a grudge only hurts you. I wouldn't say be over it, because when my ex cheated on me it took A LOT longer than 2 months to get over it, but by not forgiving him and holding that grudge, it just kept me angry and him not caring that I was angry/hurt and not over it, because he couldn't change the past. In my instance though, he is still in my life as my sons worthless father.
Also, by not forgiving him, you are going to subconsciously judge other guys by his actions. Not all guys are losers though. Just remember that.
2007-03-14 04:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by Juicy Fruit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no b/c only time can heal that when my bf cheated on me it took me 2 years to get over it. But i learned that u need to pick the pieces up glue them back together and move on. It took me awhile but once i did i realized that i didn't need him and that i was better off with out him. So i just chalked it up as experience and moved on to someone else. Not all guys cheat u know. So go find u someone who want cheat and will treat u like ur ex should of treated u. Don't let ur ex's mistakes affect ur relationships in the future. Remember its his lost and someone else's gain. Good luck
2007-03-14 03:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Study the situation and do not get too emotional but think if that relatiohsips was worth it? If you can not get her back then move on.Wasting your time do not help. When we just break up we think the whole world is over and you can not think clearly for a while! Just make your self busy and stop being in places tht reminds of her.Change your environments helps a lot.
2007-03-14 03:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by intpinternational 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can really answer that for you. You know what your relationship was like and what your feelings were for this person. However if you don't soon get over you might want to talk to someone and that's not to say a professional but a friend or family member that can help you. Harboring bad feelings isn't healthy by any means so talking to someone about how you feel may help you get over it faster.
2007-03-14 03:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Recovery time from something like that is different for everyone. Were you two in a serious relationship? Did you love her? If that's the case I don't blame you for still not being over it. Something like that can be very traumatic and take awhile to get over. Just take your time and things will get better.
2007-03-14 03:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by Tad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex cheated on me 2 weeks ago and broke up with me after 3 yr's. and it doesn't look like I'll be getting over it anytime soon but to ease the pain sleep with as many women as possible it will help you take your mind off of her don't listen to slow jams it will only make the pain worse but just be childish and cheat back if y'all are still together but if y'all are separate then yea... take my advice Gods speed !!
2007-03-14 03:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by Lil' K. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If ura woman, u should b over it because it probably had nothing to do w/ u. He's a guy, and wanted something different regardless of what your physical 'assets' r. If ura Dude, u should have become swingers instead of breaking up. Better luck next time.
2007-03-14 03:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by Michael L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be glad he is out of your life. That is hard to do right now but just think that he will never hurt you again. Don't get hung up on the fact that he humiliated you, that you loved him and he threw it all away. You can't put the crap back in the donkey. Be glad to be broken up with someone who had it so good and then was stupid to throw it all away.
2007-03-14 03:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by BLANK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it takes time, just don't stoop to your ex's level and hop right into bed with someone else for no reason, be a better person than that. Go chill with your friends for a while.
2007-03-14 03:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man we are in the same place so i dont know what to tell you. my boyfriend cheated on me with the stupid ***** girl (just kissed) and that was like 3mon in the beganing of your relastionship and where been together for a year and a half and i still think of it till this day...DO i want to kill that girl..So i dont know..and know its been pretty rock for us latley..But honstley only time will tell.
2007-03-14 03:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋