why do so many people judge you by how you look and not by whats on the inside??

Question

im not what people consider skinny ro anything and everyonejudges me by how i look and not by what i have to say and how i feel............why do so many people do this???

Answer 1

they will judge ur looks... its normal. but after knowing the real you and theyre stil judging you, maybe people around u is insecure. Well, thats the reality of life.

Answer 2

Sugar it is all about confidence. Trust me. Skinny Iam not but, I never leave the house unless I feel good about my hair and what Iam wearing. I like me...so guys do! It is 50 percent what you got and 50 percent what you make them THINK you got!
Most people aren't really shallow but, they can sense weakness from a mile away. If you feel you are being judged you need to stop judging you! Look in the mirror! Tell yourself
how great you look and MEAN it! You are woman hear you roar!

Answer 3

Most people don't look at the inside right off. They always see whats outside first. Then they go for the inside later on. If your talking about feelings and things. That scares people off a lot sometimes.. Let them come to you. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Because how you look is the first thing everyone sees. Some people are shallow and don't look at the inside before making a decision about someone.

Answer 5

I think people do this because they don't want to take the time to get to know someone they just want to judge the book by the cover not by the mysteries that are inside.

Answer 6

i know what you mean i'm not what you call a toothpick i'm average built and i do work out on my spare time.people judge because its human nature to critic each other.i know it sound sad but thats the way it is.you just have to ignore them and go on about your life.no matter what its how you feel about you matters the most.if you feel pretty thats what portrays you.and thats how people would look at you.be proud of what you are and about your self.

Answer 7

people do this because they think they are better than you cus of the way they look. my advice is to not take any notice of them be yourself and don't care what people think about you they are not worth it at all. feel good about yourself at all times. you may look differnt or may be overwieght but you are still a beautiful person

Answer 8

First impression matters. To avoid being judged by how you look, be more outgoing and express more of yourself. They will then change their opinions about you.

Answer 9

I know it sucks but I go through the same thing. If someone don't like you for who you are, then they aren't anyone to you. True friends love you for who you are and not how you look.

Answer 10

two reasons.
1) first impresions.
2) biology. we are animals. while we are capable of higher thought and emotions, there is still a very natural tendancy to be attracted to someone who is physically attractive.... especially when the basis of relationships is sex.... and sex, even when there is no intention of children, is designed to create children and therefore evolution dictates we tend to want to procreate with mates wo are fit.