I use to like this boy, but he just wanted to be my friend at that time. So I just didn't want to go with anybody. This other boy I know liked me and I liked him but I didn't wanted to go with anybody, so I acted like I went with him. I started to like him but I liked someone else at the same time. The boy that just wanted to be my friend want to go with me now. The boy that already like me caught me with the boy that wanted to be my friend and he don't like me being with other boys. Now , he think something else and it ain't what he think is going on. He don't even want to talk to me anymore. What should I do now?
2007-03-14 03:11:21 · 8 answers · asked by - -Ladii TK- - 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it a question or a puzzle..
Anyways talk to him and explain him the situation. Thats all you can do... Rest is his interpretation and decision
2007-03-14 03:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you sound like you are still very young and let me tell you. Boys will talk about you, one way or another. If you never made any real commitments to the boy you started "hanging around" because the one you really liked wasn't available or didn't want a relationship at that time, then maybe now is the time to get to know him better. But beware, he may just be interested now because he too has seen you with somebody else and in general, boy's interest always peaks, the less we pay attention to them (no matter how young or old they are). I am 44 yrs. old and have a teenage son myself. Beside, many moons ago, I too was one of you :) and saw the same stuff happening. But before you act on anything, be sure to tell the one you are currently seeing that you don't want to hurt his feelings but that your feelings for him aren't as strong as he might like them to be. Let him off easily, since he seems to really like you; however, DO NOT allow him to control you or even stalk you. If that happens, you need to tell someone immediately (other than the guy you wanted to be with from the beginning; as it's never good if they start to get physical with one another over you or anyone else for that matter). Talk to a trusted adult (if your parents are not your first choice, you can always turn to another relative, teacher or school counselor) I hope this makes sense to you and you understand what it is I am trying to tell you. Under no circumstances should you see both boys at the same time. It can become very problematic and give you a very bad "rep" quickly. Always take care of the current situation first! Hopefully, it will work out for all of you involved. And don't forget, do not let this any guy push you into something or even push you around. You are young and have your whole life in front of you... Enjoy it, but do it right and respectfully; that way, when you get older you can look back and be proud of yourself for making a good decision at a very important time in your life and smile. You can always call the first boy and let him know that you need to "settle things first" with this other guy. If he understands and waits, he's a good catch. If he doesn't and tells you not to worry about it, think twice! Remember, girls mature much quicker than boys. Use that to your advantage :) Have a great spring and summer and hope all works out fine for you. MsB.
2007-03-14 03:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by MSB1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some alone time. Instead of "dating" or having a bf, try just going out with guys "as friends". It's alot more fun without committing to one guy and maybe along the way you'll discover what you are truely looking for in a bf.
2007-03-14 03:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit the boys together and tell them the deal its not your problem the first one is obviously jealous and the other is jealous you are spending time with another guy! Hey girl look i now really what u r going through i did the same with the guy i am going out with now it worked out for me and i am a fat chick not supper fat but i have a little belly but i am dating a boy with an eight pack,sexy but loves to dance and skate at the skating rink well if you want to talk ever here is my e-mail spicy_kitty_2011@yahoo.com
2007-03-14 03:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Like 1 guy and stay with him. And the way it sounds your confused so just dont have a boyfrind right now anyways. You seem young so go live it up.
2007-03-14 03:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it face to face.Talking always helps.U should assure him that u r not going to cheat on him.Tell him what exactly happened and that u would be honest.Good luck:)
2007-03-14 03:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH?
2007-03-14 03:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by Seeker 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wtf?? explain more i have no idea what your talking about
2007-03-14 03:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by tessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋