First off, you need to tell a trusted adult. One who isn't gonna tell your secrets. Because if your mom doesn't know that you want to date girls... Then there might be problems for both familys. Stay true to yourself. And live your life how you want. Don't be afraid either. You are old enough and mature enough to know what you want to do.
2007-03-14 03:15:33
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answered by Ashley Sweets 2
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Sweetheart! What U do is ur business, U Lv who U Lv. U don't have to go around and announce to everyone that u R attracted to both men and women. Find someone that U like (really) and have a good safe time. U R young, this is a time to experiment and focus on ur education!!!! U will find ur way when the time/person is right. Trust me I lived it. I know that it may seem confusing right now, but you don't have to make a choice or tell anyone. If U ever need to talk fell free to E-mail me angelinecooper@sbcglobal.net. Enjoy spring break!!!!
2007-03-14 10:28:09
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answered by Angel in KS 1
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You need to not look at wether the person is a guy or girl, but rather their personality and if you are attracted to them, you need to do what is best and feels right for you!
And as far as telling people you need to wait until it feels right and then just let them know that this is how you are and that it doesn't mean that you should be treated differently or looked at in a worse way, all it means is that you care about how a person is on the inside rather than the out!
2007-03-14 10:16:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Unless you know someone else who is bi, I wouldn't go telling the whole world yet. Most people won't understand and label you a pervert. As you get older you'll find there are many just like you and that it's not that strange.
2007-03-14 11:52:34
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answered by ? 7
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I don't think u need to tell anyone. If u find yourself in a situation where u like a certain girl then u tell her. For now just stay open minded and be comfortable with yourself
2007-03-14 10:16:44
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answered by *VS* 3
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Well.. I would do whatever pleases me don't worry about what people think of you, Being honest about your interest in both sexes will set you free;because once people know and are comfortable with it then you will be comfortable with it and you'll feel free because your not hiding anything. .It wont be easy at first but give it time and you will become more comfortable with telling people after awhile. Gods speed.
2007-03-14 10:28:59
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answered by Lil' K. 2
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I mean what is there to be scared about? There alot of women out there that is Bi if people cant execept it then there not really there 4 you..You know
2007-03-14 10:18:11
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answered by Blondie 2
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well you should tell ur mom she will understand and if she doesnt then she will eventually, and well if u feel comfortable with girls u can date them. u should not keep this a secret. if u feel like u need to get it off ur chest then u should at least tell a really good friend.
2007-03-14 10:16:26
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answered by Anonymous
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Well tell someone if you want. People are used to that by now.
2007-03-14 10:14:43
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answered by Amanda 4
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maybe wait till you find a girl that you can experiment with. you dont want to just try to jump her bones, but maybe you wont even end up liking girls. i never tried so ij dont know, but i also dont know if id like it.
2007-03-14 10:14:43
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answered by Mrs.Vick 4
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