like me and my ex are back together we have been together for 1 year and 2 months but we broke up for four but we love spending time with each other but we are always having sex all the time like i lost my big v to him so i'm use to it but do u think he got back with me for sex or b/c he really loves me. all my friends say that he is just back for the sex but i don't think so. what should i do.....
2007-03-14 03:00:16 · 15 answers · asked by cookie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you can answer that question yourself. How does he act around you? I mean, of course he wants sex, after all, you have been in a long term relationship for a while. But other than that, does he keep his word, does he spend time with you, is he attentive to your needs? If so, then I would say that he is back with you because he loves you. Listen to your heart, it will give you the answer.
2007-03-14 03:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Queen Bee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up? Whatever the reason behind the break up is or was has it been resolved? Outside of the sex thing what else do you do with him or does he do for you? It seems as though you spend most of your time together doing one thing and one thing only. Your friends might be right because they're on the outside looking in so they can see what's going on where as by your being in the relationship you might not see everything that needs to be seen. Try having or giving him less sex and see how he reacts. If he starts threatening to cheat or gets upset then you know the answer to the question.
2007-03-14 03:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are in it for sex, but after the sex what is there? If you don't have mutual respect for eachother, you'll probably want to start making an exit plan as it is inevitable that you'll be unhappy with eachother.
If you do care for eachother, so what if he likes sex? As long as you are OK with it, that is. That what mating is all about.
How does he treat you when you're not in bed? Does he make you happy? Will he be a good provider for you?
You might need extra help with counseling to get through this. Relationships aren't easy. Good luck!
2007-03-14 03:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends why you broke up. Chances are he's using you, chances are you both just wanted to get back together.
Want an easy way to test it? Tell him you're still hurt from the breakup and would like to take it slow for awhile - no sex. If he's still willing to go for your heart, he's not using you.
2007-03-14 03:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give him sex for 2 weeks and see how he takes it. If he gets upset, then its for the sex.
2007-03-14 03:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by cream 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can make this call but you. Do you have a life that is well-rounded; do you do other things that are enjoyable? Is he understanding when you don't want to have sex? I think that, in your heart, you know the answer to this question.
2007-03-14 03:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that he has yes. You're seeing him from an emotional level and he's seeing things from a physical level. Men and women are wired differently in that aspect. I think he's staying with you for the physical part it's sad to say. If you begin to notice it and get tired of it, you'll know when you're ready to move on =)
2007-03-14 03:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like u spend time 2gether other than just the sex, he may really love u, but y dont ur friends like him??
2007-03-14 03:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try dening him sex and see his reaction. Try going somewhere together that you will both enjoy and share a common interest in it.
2007-03-14 03:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Sherior 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say no to sex and see what he does
2007-03-14 03:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋