Ok..I've known my boyfriend for about five years and he has always been the one to wear carhart jeans and work boots, with a tshirt. He's always went hunting and fishing and all that stuff. Well last week he got a job on a office and he has to dress up everyday. thats fine, but he's on this thing now that he has to grow up..he's selling all his guns and poles and any other equipment...he's selling his guitars.. he's getting rid of all his jeans..and just acting strange. But It may be selfish but I don't want him to change.. I love him in his jeans and boots...I love to go fishing...and I LOVE that he plays the guitar...so what do I do?.. I'd love him to death...I'd love to spend the rest of my life with him...Am I being stupid or is he?
2007-03-14 02:57:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well ur both stupid. You need to talk to HIM about this, not us. Tell him this, exactly what you wrote. Print it out if you have to! But Make it so that you love him no matter what he wears, or does. Tell him that. Then remind him(gently, and in a hushed tone) that if you changed like that, then he would be a little upset too. But go easy on him. This stuff could be really hard for him!
2007-03-14 03:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by ChickAroo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps you should first talk to him about how you are feeling, then maybe buy him a new guitar, some new jeans, and a good pair of boots. He should get the hint by then. Also a new fishing pole and some supplies-but beware of getting him a new gun just yet. Good luck!
2007-03-14 03:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by dragondave187 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither of u are stupid but really if he wants to work seriously he will have to grow up but its not necessary need to sell everything. u can tell him honestly that u love him the way he is and he can do his hobbies in his free time with u .
2007-03-14 03:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just doing what he thinks it take's to fit into his new work place....
2007-03-14 03:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by bnrl_shell88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋