I split wit the love of my life 5 months ago,we were really in love. She dumped me cus she thought i didnt trust her cus of a message she got,it was sent by my sis but i took the blame cus of family probs in r house. I near died wit a wee prob and my mum had a cancer scare. She was upset i didnt tell the truth. She went in2 depression wen we split. I wanted 2 tell her but she wudnt speak 2 me, she emailed me recently,shes wit a new guy,she told me she likes him but not in love yet,she still loves me and always will. She said she cant go bak 2 me cus she wont trust me after this but wants me as a friend. Wat do i do cus i really love her,id rather b died than live witout her, i know i can win her trust round,quite quickly,please help me guys. Ive 2 emil her bak any tips???? Ive found out her new fella is only 16 and shes a 20 year old uni student,r friends r disgusted in her and find it sick but i still love her.
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I sent her alot of letters and emails. I have wrote another letter but i am afraid to send it in case it makes me look obsessed. advice please. should i send it???
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has it beenn 2 long??
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please give me some advice folks,this has been driving me mad for months, the pain aint easing
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all her friends r mine and we met at a party a few months ago, when she saw i was upset she started crying, we cant avoid each other, i love her and its going on 2 long, plz help folks
2007-03-14 02:53:43 · 8 answers · asked by Paddy I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound to desperate. You would have me backing away. That is what most do when the other sounds so frantic and pushy. How old are you ??
My advice is to calm down, and tell her honestly how you feel about her, and let her do the same, and go from there.
The sound of your letter, is not the sound of love to me.
It is more a fear of being rejected by her.
You really are wound up and that's scary.~~~~~~~~Jill
2007-03-14 03:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've sent letters & e-mails, I wouldn't send any more or you're right, you will look obsessed! Call her and tell her you just want to talk and tell her how you feel. If she says no, then you'll just have to mourn and leave her alone. Some people have a really hard time trusting again after they feel they've been misled.
2007-03-14 03:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Christina G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do is talk to her one day, let her know how you feel, but dont sound desperate. Just let her know that you care about her, and that it's not a joke, you are for real. Do something to show her that. Surprise her with something she loves... See how she responds. I wish you lots of luck and love!
2007-03-14 03:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi friend.
1. DONT send too many mails. wont look good.
2. write a calm,sensible mail. tell her that you want to discuss many things with her, FOR NOW, you are okay in being friends only.
3. MEET HER. tell her the whole story, swear on your mom, swear in the church or swear upon her, but MAKE HER BELIEVE YOU.
4. she loves you, and i promise she will come back, only, you cherish her this time. GIRLS CANT FORGIVE TEARS
5. DONT discuss her with friends, friends ur age wont have an ounce of sense in their heads anyway(sorry! but believe me...) GIRLS DNT LIKE BNG DISCUSSED BY A WHOLE GROUP OF FRIENDS.
all the best..
2007-03-14 03:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i'm not a guy but you need to tell her how you really feel other wise you may do suicide over her. if she doesn't trust her just tell her you'll never lie again, tell her you lover her soo much that it literally kills you when you're not together. hope it works, cuz it sounds like you're a really cool person.single?
2007-03-14 03:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by *devil eyes* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know exactly how you feel. Usually things work out for the best.
2007-03-14 02:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by Mommyof2angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel
2007-03-14 02:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feal and tell her that you love her
2007-03-14 03:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋