I am almost 19 years old and I haven't had a boyfriend of my whole life. I asked out two people who rejected me because they prefered to remain friends with me. At my age, almost everyone has already had at least one boyfriend, also, I am cute, I mean, I am not a monster!! lol. Tell me what's wrong with me.
2007-03-14 02:53:43 · 19 answers · asked by whitewolf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's perfectly normal. Be alarmed if you're 30 years old. = ) You're still young, beautiful I assume and an intelligent girl too. Don't worry about having a boyfriend. It's not "outcast" to have no hubby when everyone has one. I know it's kindda lonely specially on valentine's day, christmas, newyear etc. But hey don't settle for anything less than what you deserve! Focus on your studies and building a strong and bright future. When you've grown old enough, a professional with a good job...I'm sure men will fall in line.= ) Take note "Men" not "Boys"... The best things come to those who are willing to wait...
2007-03-14 03:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by Smile2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess that you have a pretty full life and are fulfilled going about the business of living. My daughter was like that. When she finally got a boyfriend it was because all her girlfriends had one. Now she is happily married and the mother of two. You should be proud that you are not rushing the lifetime partner bit. It will come, as the other guy said. And you are a better person to have gotten other things in your life done first!
2007-03-14 10:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you girl. Be happy for who you are. Dont be fooled by the world that you live in. Your different just like everyone else. You are who you are because of who you are. You will find someone eventually, and If he is your first and only then thats the way it was meant to be, if it isn't then you will move on. Just remember your not suppossed to have dated or already or your not suppossed to have had a boyfriend already. Thats all BS talk.
2007-03-14 10:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by rayray34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19? This is not 1830 in the old west. You're not exactly an old maid. You know? This is your time. Being single is awesome. Just enjoy your freedom. If you tie yourself down to someone and put your identity and worth into having a man, you'll never know you as yourself and your own potential. Don't rush okay? Give yourself time to become who you are meant to be.
2007-03-14 10:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, if you be yourself then people will notice how relaxed you are. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 16 and people thought I was a freak because of that! I gave up trying in the end then somebody asked me out.
2007-03-14 10:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u are to cute most guys are shy really and dont think they can get a pretty girl so dont worry it will happen and dont rush it now that u are 19 life is gunna pass u by before u know it youll be turning 35 and have 2 screaming kids of your own lol
2007-03-14 09:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by gands4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey darlin there is nothing wrong you trust me.
Usally guys are really shy when it comes to someone they really like and they will wait for you to ask them out!!!
As you said you have had bad times with asking boys out..
Maybe ask your friends to hook u up with some of there friends and stufff!!!
Maybe go out a bit more, socialize and stuff with different people just make sure your always confident just not to confident and never dress like a slut guys dont like it, you will attract the wrong type just dress nice and casual but still looks goood..
and the KEY is "Just be yourself" guys hate girls who are fake.
I hope i helped
xx.
2007-03-14 09:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't say what's wrong with you, but just be thankful you're not dealing with unnecessary concerns at this time. You know, like pregnancy, STD's, some can cause cervical cancer, or just male hating. Enjoy being friends, Trust me, it's worth the wait.
2007-03-14 09:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by treasureyourself 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've made ME feel better that you posted this cuz(k i didn't wanna sound like a looser, but i'll tell ya this) i didn't have go on my 1st date till i was 21! seriously, it's nothing wrong with it, enjoy being single. ha i know, it's terrible lots of the time but don't think there's something wrong with you, it's just you haven't found the right guy yet, good luck
2007-03-14 09:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by forget_me_not 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur too desperate. usually when u stop looking for something, it comes right in front of u. for example, i was lookign for scotch tape the other day and i looked everywhere and couldnt find it, than, this morning, when i wasnt looking for it, it was right in front of me on the table! therefore, i suggest u enjoy ur single life and stop being down in the dumps just because you are not in a relationship. and soon, he'll just pop up in front of u like the scotch tape did in front of me!
2007-03-14 09:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by F . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋