if a guy sometimes ignores your texts, does that mean he isnt really interested in you?
is it part of a game???if so, why???what does it achieve???
2007-03-14 02:50:48 · 41 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is it "the chase"/push and pull game???i dunno. im really confused.
2007-03-14 02:53:34 · update #1
I'd say it means he isn't interested! Sorry!
2007-03-14 02:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When he doesnt answer your texts and calls how do you feel? You think about him more because you want to know why or what he is doing that he cant take alittle time of day to message you back. It could be part of a game to make you want him more or he really could be busy. Depends on the guy. Everyone knows that distance can make the heart grow fonder so if you were talking 24/7 then you would get bored fast.
2007-03-14 02:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by lethalx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a guy, so it would normally mean he's so unorganised that he doesn't have any credit on his phone!
I would say it means he is or isn't interested, I don't know any guys that use 'rules' when it comes to relationships and stuff like this.
I would just send him a txt or if you've already done this leave it a while and call him, last thing you wanna do is make yourself out to be annoying. But I wouldn't look for any hidden meaning, I'm sure it's not because he's trying to play a 'game'.
Hopefully he will txt you soon saying 'Sorry hunni had no credit!'
2007-03-14 02:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
It very much depends on the guy! Either way, I don't think you want to get too far into him because either:
1. He is ignoring you because he's not that into you
or
2. He is playing games with you
Either way, you don't need the hassle! So make sure that for the next month or so he texts you first, and if you text him and he doesn't reply, don't keep texting him! Eventually, if you really like him, bring it up! If he really likes you, he'll stop playing games eventually
xo Emmie
2007-03-14 02:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by Sparklepop 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if a guy sometimes ignores your texts, does that mean he isnt really interested in you? > yes, especially if you keep on texting him like every hour of the day, then definitely yes.
is it part of a game???if so, why???what does it achieve??? you dont really have to know the answer to that if wants to play a game, then let him play. it's a free country. why are you so concerned anyway? it seems you like a guy who do not like you. move on. have a life.
2007-03-14 03:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How often do you text the guy? You have to be careful and make sure your not bothering him with all the texting. I have a highschool age son and he loves his gf but, he gets so many phone calls and text that sometimes he just has to ignore them just to watch a movie or do his homework and in that small amount of time he could get a lot of missed text. It can get irritating. Your guy prob. doesn't mean anything by it he's just got a life other than his phone.
2007-03-14 02:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by Seeker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are men who are naturally that way. It also depends on the guy's personalities though. Some guys are just weird though. Some men on the other hand aren't that fond of texting. I guess not replying instantly to a girl especially if he knows you like him or he likes you but doesn't reply to you, I guess it'll make you kill your self thinking why he hasn't replied or anything. Or sometimes, it also means that he isn't interested. So if a guy doesn't give you replies, you shouldn't think it too negatively, but you shouldn't also be too expecting.
2007-03-14 02:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he's actually ignoring them then I'm saying no, he's not interested in you...
Now if you're only assuming he's ignoring them, there could be many different reasons why he hasn't replied or haven't even received them!
But if he really is ignoring them, stop texting him because he's not interested in you. You look desperate and makes him not like you even more...
You'll make the biggest statement possible by ignoring him also...
2007-03-14 02:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by i ♥þîÑk☆ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a game-the 'treat 'em mean,keep 'em keen' one. What he doesn't understand is maybe it will keep us interested and wondering in the short term-but it won't be long before we tire of the infantile games and find ourselves a real man that doesn't feel the need to play games! Don't text him at all-pure and simple. He'll probably-after a certain amount of time-start texting you wondering what's going on. Don't reply-just delete them.
2007-03-14 03:41:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is playing games he's not worth your time. And yes if he doesn't CALL you then he's not interested. Texting is not an acceptable form of communication from a love interest.
2007-03-14 02:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say he wasnt that interested to be honest!! The only reason i would ignore a blokes txt would be if i wasnt that bothered about them so i expect men are the same!!
Dont keep texting him if he doesnt reply x
2007-03-14 03:04:55 · answer #11 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋