ok i had a fight with these 3 girls (well basically they crowed me) so it wuz just me against them, and the only person who could have helped me was my boyfriend, but he didn't hit the girls are anything all he did wuz pull them off of me, and now my whole family is mad at him cuz they said he could have hit a least one of them, and i asked him why he didn't hit one of them and he said cuz they were minors and he didn't want to go to jail, and i'm so confused on what to do i don't know should i stay with him or just leave him cuz i know i can never bring him around my family again cuz they hate him now (cuz he didn't help me) and yes i'm mad too but it's just so complicated when feelings are involved, plz can someone give me some advice!!!!
2007-03-14 02:50:45 · 9 answers · asked by sexichica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, tell him how you feel and have a serious talk with them. Girls can be a lot more difficult to fight when your a guy. He prob. was raised with the "You dont ever hit girls" rule. He could seriously get in trouble if he did. Just talk to him a little more. Good Luck, and dont ever go near these girls again.
2007-03-14 02:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by ChickAroo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know what, your boyfriend has a point and he's smart for not hitting on the girls. I bet he understand you as much but he isn't carried too much on the situation. He's a guy but he doesn't hit girls just because his girlfriend or family wants or expecting him to do. They're minors.. he doesn't want to hit them... because he doesn't want to go to jail... and it's wrong.. he was thinking before doing anything... why can't you understand that? I think you're too carried away by your emotions that things seem to be one sided to you right now. Your boyfriend's just weighing the options. I feel sorry for him.
2007-03-14 03:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. I'd say he did the right thing. He pulled them off of you-- being a guy if he was to hit one of them he could have been put in a legal situation. And if they were minors and he was over 18 then it could have been even worse for him. Im sorry that you feel he did you wrong but he really did what he was supposed to. Think of it this way.. if he wasn't going to hit them-- He'll never hit you!
2007-03-14 02:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
common it was just a fight! and u have to understand him then u can explain to ur family because u are angry they will not forgive him and honestly he sounds a nice guy because guys should not hit girls so he did a good thing be happy not mad!
2007-03-14 02:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A BOY SHOULD NEVER EVER HIT A GIRL EVER!!!
I UNDERSTAND YOUR PROBLEM, BUT THINK ABOU IT THIS WAY!! THE FACT THAT HE DIDNT HIT THE (BITCHES) SHOWS YOU THAT HE WILL 10 TO 1 NEVER HIT YOU!!
WHAT IF HE DID HIT THEM, WILL IT MAKE YOU PROUD TO SAY THAT MY BF HIT SOME MINORS THE OTHER DAY!!, OR MY BF HELPED TO GET THEM AWAY FROM ME, HE DIDNT HIT THEM, WHICH SHOWS ME THAT HE WILL 10 TO 1 NEVER HIT ME!!!
YOUR ANGRY AT HIM... SO YOUR FAMILY IS ANGRY AT HIM, COME ON PLEASE!! JUST TELL THEM THAT YOU HAVE A LOT OF RESPECT FOR YOUR BF COZ HE DIDNT HIT ANY OF THOSE GIRLS!!
HE DID HELPED YOU BY PULLING THEM OF , HE CULD HAVE STAND THERE AND JUST WATCH!!
THINK ABOUT IT!!!!
2007-03-14 03:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by chala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea why ur family is mad at him. he did the rite thing he took them off u so he did defend u and he is aman so ofcourse he couldnt hit them and much less if they were minors. u are overreacting adn so is ur family.
2007-03-14 02:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your family that boys can't hit girls.
2007-03-14 03:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i'm sorry that happened to you, but he should have helped you seriously, if you are going to stay with him you have to make him sware to god that he won't let that happen to you again ok...good luck
2007-03-14 02:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by Taquila (Celtics Fan) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write shorter messegins
2007-03-14 02:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by marcmuller 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋