hey ppl im jess n im only 16 wile my bf is 20..he wants 2 go 2 florida w/me n i dunno wat 2 tll him sins my parnts dont evn no bout him....i cud get 2gathr th money but im scared 2 go alone w/him....wat if sumthin hapns...hes nice n evrythin but stll.....ive only nown him 4 2 mnths....shud i go or make up n xcuse? ALL HELP WELCOME
*****PLZ DONT GIV ME STPD ANSRS IM ALREDY CONFUSED AS IT IS N DONT TLL ME 2 STP WRITING IN SHORTHAND CUZ I WONT!
2007-03-14 02:42:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um guys, im sry but he dosnt xactly no im 16 he thnks im 20 we met on th net n i strtd lyin 2 him frm there cuz i hrd th net wasnt safe....hes soooo sweet n hes like mr.prfct 4 evry grl.....now wat? u guys probably thnk im th bad guy now
2007-03-16 14:53:14 · update #1
sry 2 let u dwn but i do lie 2 him....but not anymore jus wen i didnt no him n met him on th web
2007-03-16 14:53:58 · update #2
sound like you allready know that it is the wrong thing to do you sound like a smart kid you just made a wrong choice in telling a lie and it has snowballed dont go if he is as good as you say you should come clean and he will understand if not then he was just after one thing and probably would have ended up breaking your heart any way xoxo
2007-03-21 23:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by angelicahevenly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You confused little cutehead! Well I'd say open up with the sweet guy and see if he's still sweet.
If he still is: then tell him whats normal for him is too fast for you and so he'll have to tone it down a little and help you grow up a little too soon. Now does he have the patience to wait for you to grow up, I mean does he like you that much? Always remember, once the expectations of a relationship are clear its smooth sailing.
I'm a mother so to me you're definetely not ready to get closer than making out and frankly angel, anyone telling you otherwise is misleading you for sure even if thats your own heart!
He's 20 so he's surely been there done that and if he's in for the long haul he can help you through it for the next couple of years by being your friend and when you're ready, then with the intimacies. Again, is he ready for that?
Sso at the moment dear since you're the younger one, you need to test out this guy whose older to you but is he behaving that way? If yes, even your parents won't mind you both hanging out.
Be careful, be safe and enjoy youth while it lasts!
2007-03-21 18:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by LibraCrazyVirgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are putting yourself in a bad spot. Not only did you make this guy think you were 20 but now you are looking to go out of state with someone you met on the net. You are not looking for stupid answers but what you have done is real stupid. You are putting yourself in danger stay home and fess up before you end up hurt or killed. You have a life time to date at 16 yrs old no guy in there 20's is just looking to be a boyfriend.
2007-03-22 02:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget it! absolutely not! and ppl now does needa get their heads out their asses, not all people on the net are bad people. i'm 19, my bf is 21. we met on yahoo, have always been close. shoot i gave him my cell number when we met on the net after knowing i could trust him after a while. things are wonderful btw us,were engaged. you deff messed up not telling him u were 16 and not 20. dumb mistake right there. considering that mistake and everything. forget it! u need to tell that guy the truth if u trust him. never! try to be someone you're not, messes everything up. i wouldn't take him with you. ur 16,he's 20, by lying to him you could cause him a lot of trouble. especially with the law these days.
2007-03-21 19:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you have been with him for 2 months!
Maybe you should just say you got something happening and you cant go if you dont feel comfortable going alone!!
Or ask him if you can bring a friend maybe..
It depends ask your self these:
*Do you trust him?
*Do you feel safe with him?
*He want make u do anything you dont want to?
If they are all YES maybe you should go, you never know might turn out to be the best trip to florida ever.
And plus its never good to lie to your parents something bad always happeneds in the end and they always find out the truth!
Well I hope everything goes well with it.
<3
2007-03-14 02:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should definitely Not go!! You sound like a strong individual by the way you detailed your question. Your parents don't even know him but you love your parents and they take care of you. Don't just throw your future away on a guy who would want you to sneak away like that. He's not worth it and won't be loyal. Your future holds a guy that will love you and also get along with your family when everything is right. You don't want to miss him.
2007-03-14 02:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. you are playin a game that you are about to lose. you don't go nowhere with anybody you just met 2mos ago. y did u lie about your age? he's grown. leave him alone. stay wit boys yo age. when u get 18 then u could do what ever you want. but for now. let him go. he is too old for you. stop lyin about your age. u may luck up and find a crazy man and we'll be readin about you instead of from you
2007-03-21 21:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Marcia G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
under no circumstances should you go anywhere with him without others around
tell your parents that you met a nice, older guy who's 20 and you want to be friends with him...and see what they say..if they dont approve, you have your answer from those who love you and care for you the most in this world till their death..or yours....dont dissappoint them even behind their back,.,they WILL know and find out in the long run and I believe what you want most from your parents is for them to trust you...please trust them, they are your only true and best friends in this world...think if you wre the mother and your daughter wanted to do the same thing...your gut and intuitions are telling you what you should do rt now...be safe and best of luck
for all it's worth, keep your clothes on and keep your "P"ower in your jeans..get it? good..will you be glad and thankful you did someday soon...
2007-03-14 02:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be with him anyways, do you realize he's committing a crime by being with you. And if you are scared to go away with him well then that's your answer right there. Stay away from this guy. And obviously you haven't told your parents about him because you know it's wrong to be with him. Date someone your own age that you are not fearful of.
2007-03-14 02:49:01 · answer #9 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is better for you not to go with him, knowing that you've only known him for two months. that means that there are still certain things about him which might be bad or good that you do not know about. try telling him that you cannot go with him, because you do not want to leave your parents at such a stage in your life, probably later. if he truly loves you, he will understand. if he still insists that you guys still go to florida, then you know that he doesnt care about you or your family. it is probably best for you not to go. what if something terrible happens, think about it.
2007-03-14 02:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by omo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋