so yeah, i've made the mistake of going out with jerks in the past and it's left me scared to date again but next time i do, i want it to go well, most of my friends are younger(and not dating) or older(and married) so i feel like i have no one to be an example to me on how to be great at dating....feel like i need lessons, i know it sounds stupid but oh well. i am insecure so i know i need to try not to act desperate or clingy but what are some other ways i can be a great gf??? please don't give me mean crapy answers, i just wanna have my next relationship go well!
2007-03-14 02:41:46 · 6 answers · asked by forget_me_not 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u have the same problem my best girl friend has! one i can tell u for sure.. dont be so anxious i mean u must enjoy ur dates dont think too much about what u should do be yourself do what u like to do! dont try to pretend so as to make him like u its silly go on ur dates and enjoy! dates are fun i am really happy when i know i am goin on a date and i dont worry too much about it.. there is no date recipe the answer is so simply thats why maybe u dont believe it BE JUST YOU WITHOUT PLANS.. good luck and trust me dont spoil ur dates by thinkin what to do the whole day before
2007-03-14 02:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by manosn1b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. Be yourself. Know when it's time to break up or when it's time to get serious.
Don't be clingy (calling once and leaving one message is enough - if you don't have an answer the next day it's ok to try again).
2007-03-14 02:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off most of us guys are jerks sorry to say that but we are best thing to be is YOURSELF dont try to pretend u are something you are not but at the same time try not to be controlling nor be controlled try not to be to forward but let him know u like him when kissed goodnight kiss back that gets us everytime good luck darlin
2007-03-14 02:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by gands4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe rather than trying to be a good girlfriend you look for a guy that wants to be a good boyfriend --- change the criteria you look for --- and above all be yourself --- let the guy prove to you that he iw worth going out with ---- best wishes
2007-03-14 03:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know you are going through a learning experience right now.. so remember to grow from any disappointments ..evidently you are stiil young and inexperienced in these things,, but you can grow and be stronger and very independent.
2007-03-14 02:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice to your man and stuff
2007-03-14 03:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋