ok, here's my situation. my girlfriend broke up with me about five months ago because she felt that certain things were missing in the relationship. we didn't have any problems with drugs, alcohol, abuse, anything like that. it was mostly a lack of communication, getting into a rut, and lack of emotional support. anyways, i've made a lot of changes for myself over the last few months and she has started to see those, and she believes that they are real. my question is, do you think that it is fair of me to ask her calmly and politely if she would be interested in talking about the relationship, seeing where it goes, and see if there's still a chance of us getting back together. I know I can't force her to or put pressure on her, because that would just drive her farther away from me, but I'm just wondering if it is fair of me to see where I stand and see if I still have a chance of getting back together with her. I would really appreciate your input.
2007-03-14 02:30:34 · 8 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would say go for it
2007-03-14 02:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's only been a few months, but if she's really convinced and is comfortable, then go for it. My advice is maybe stay close to her and just wait it out a little bit longer. Talk to her and spend time with her when you can so that she can see all your improvements and so that the feelings don't get cold. If she sees these changes and acknowledges them, then you got a pretty good chance of getting back together. But when you do ask her out again, make sure there's no pressure on her and don't rush things.Say something like "If it's okay with you, I would really like to give our relationship one more try." Just tell her that there's no pressure and that you just want to try out a relationship instead of head diving into one. Hope this helps.
2007-03-14 02:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by Roger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say about that is that u should talk to her tell her how you feel because i understand that you don't wanna rush anything but you also dont wanna wait too long so next time you talk to her yall jus sit down and try to get an understanding of where you two stand as far as gettin back together and let her know that you think that your ready to get back with her and aske her if she thinks that you two gettin back together is right.
2007-03-14 02:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by rmp386 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like your mind and your heart is in the right place so U should ask her to give u a second chance. If those changes are real and if ur love is sincere I think she'll want to be with u again.
2007-03-14 02:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't try you can't fail. Of course it's worth a try. Expect the worse and maybe you'll get the best!
2007-03-14 02:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea u have every right to know where u stand..just talk to her about it but dont push for something..tell her you want to take things slow and start all over. it will work dude
2007-03-14 02:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The greatest mistake we make are the risk we did'nt take. if you think something will make you happy, go for it! So that, you won't live you life asking' what if? and telling yourself ' if only...''' GOODLUCK!!!
2007-03-14 03:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't put ur all hope in it! but its Worth a try .
go for it.
2007-03-14 02:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋