She is about to be my wife . .
I am proposing to her on the next Saturday.
I almost got everything she likes.. Nice house .. Nice car.. very happy life .. we are so in love .. i know that cars and houses are not all the assets .. we are so happy but i feel like i have to do somthing more ..
What do you think poeple .. ??
2007-03-14 02:23:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, congratulations and good luck! As to your question, it sounds like you have the framework in place for ensuring financial security for your marriage. Good for you! You are, however, moving from the courtship stage of your relationship to a more permanent stage. The longevity of marriage requires something more: an emotional foundation in which each person does their best to make their spouse's emotional contentment a priority. It's great that you want to do something more: it means that you care.
But DOING something more doesn't have to mean BUYING something more. Keep the magic, friendship and laughter in your relationship. As much as any woman would appreciate your buying things, sometimes buying stuff can come across as the easy way out. Anyone can buy jewelry on Valentine's Day. But not every man will come home from a hard day's work, wash a sink full of dishes and clean up simply because he knows that his wife is just as tired as he is. As a working woman, give me that ANY day! LOL! Let her know that, no matter what, you have her best interests at heart. Be her biggest cheerleader. Be her friend. Respect her family. Value her opinion - even if you don't agree with it. Make sure that you set aside time for yourselves and be vigilant about it. It's those things that will sustain a marriage much longer than anything that you could buy. But since you're still in the buying stage: DON'T FORGET THE RING! Best of luck!
2007-03-14 02:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by ladylee1230 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being thoughtfull, patient and be with her in the years coming.
You will learn throught out your life if you never give up TRUE LOVE.
Those provided above (Nice car and house) are only at the material end and whoever richer then you will provided better.
2007-03-14 09:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by cocktail nuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got her a house a nice car and a happy life...i dont think theres much more to make her even happier than she already is...if i was here thats all i would need that and u for the rest of my life...im sure she is the happiest person in the world when she is with you...just make next sat. perfect...surprise her with little things..
good luck i hope she says "yes"!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-14 09:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her and going to be her husband then she should be happy to get u but still make the proposal romantic that never forget, like a romantic dance then in front of everybody even her parents ask her to be ur wife off course after asking her parents and let them help u secretly best of luck!
2007-03-14 09:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you keep romancing her. I met a guy last march, got married to him in oct, we have a nice house, cars but the romance stopped once we got married. Arg.. woman love romance, attention, just little things like doing the dishes, vacuuming, leaving little notes for her. that kind of stuff. enjoy life!
2007-03-14 09:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by catdogpenny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yep! I agree!
You have forgotten the ring!!
And don't forget a nice dinner or roses too!
Congrats & Good Luck
2007-03-14 09:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by Dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are bribing her into marrying you. Women really are content with just honesty, faithfulness, trying to make ends meet, and great sex. After that, material things really are boring stuff. You don't NEED to get her more, I'd say it sounds like she's getting it all now.
2007-03-14 09:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you sound like a great guy that she should be glad she has you and is lucky, don't feel like you need to always have more, love is not made be giving nice things to that person, she'll love you for who you are. good luck and congrats~
2007-03-14 09:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by forget_me_not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a beautiful ring and keep this in mind...
what ever you did to catch her is what you need to do to keep her....
congratulations and good luck
2007-03-14 09:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by Marsha Mellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask for her father's permission.
2007-03-14 09:27:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋