this is the story...My best friend had 2 house parties at her house. She told me to my face that she was having them but wouldn't invite me. I got really hurt by this! She told me the reason's why she didn't want to invite me were because certain people dis-liked me. I really got upset by this and wrote her this note out of a bit "of anger"
So Angie wouldn't invite me to two of her parties because "other people there" didn't like me. And because i guess she's so concerned with what other people think about her. She's so concerned with what other people think she'll do whatever to fit in! It doesn't matter if she's hurting someone else what matters is what other people think about her. Well...Angie I have invited you to EVERY PARTY every EVENT I've ever had at my house and now you go and tell me that because someone doesn't "like me" you aren't going to invite me? That's f*** up. Some of my friends didn't like "someone" (cough) you know who I'm talking about! But i invited her anyways because you know what I'M NOT SOMEONE WHO CARES WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK!!! I DON'T CARE!!! And if they don't like that person DEAL WITH IT! Why should one person NOT be invited because another person doesn't like them...i hope in college you learn to grow up!!
2007-03-14 02:15:56 · 4 answers · asked by LiL Chrissy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my question is..is what i said mean and cold hearted i wasn't trying to be...here was her response to what i said....
13 hours ago
told u the god d*mn reason... maybe i thought u'd be uncomfortable... i still remember during 4th grade at Julie's birthday part you were down in her basement CRYING because you fet like everyone hated you... well u know who came down there to see if you were okay... oh yea! that was ME!!!!!!!!! i tried to ******* help you... MAYBE i thought u'd be uncomfortable with the people at the party and i didn't want u to get upsest and start crying again... if u actually think of it... i was trying to help you! so i'm sorry if u think i hate you but i don't... you just take things the wrong way and your going to tell ME to grow up! wow.... let's just read u'r post again and see who should grow up and try and learn what people are trying to do to help you. and HELL people go behind my back all the time... that's life... it WILL happen so sorry.
2007-03-14 02:16:30 · update #1
some more of what she wrote to me
lright u want the truth???? the truth is that i felt you were out of place and i didn't know if you would fit in with the people at my party... hell u dont' even KNOW any of my xc friends except for kat but that's one out of like 10. and my other friends i dont' know if u'r friends and that group of friends that i have we have the same exact people at our parties it's not like it's anything new all of their parties i'm mostly invited to and my party they are invited to so i'm sorry if i thought it would be weird. oh and that's the other thing i DIDN'T tell you that i was having a party because i didn't want to hurt u'r feelings but i should have known it would come out sooner or later... and how many times do i have to say sorry beacuse i will say that i am sorry i told you i was sorry like a hundred times so i don't know what you want me to say.
2007-03-14 02:17:54 · update #2
should i still be friends with her?? And tell the truth does it sound like she is just making up excuses? Would you be friends with someone like this? We are going to the same college next year so i don't want any problems! please tell me what you think!
2007-03-14 02:18:55 · update #3
HOLY CRAP. This such drama. Everybody here is just being petty and mean.
2007-03-14 02:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would only say this that you be strong.overcome the shortcomings in you .have some respect for yourself .face the reality that your best friend is actually not your best friend .stop hanging around with her ,dont run after people.stay with people who respect you ,love you no matter what you are .dress up smartly ,get a little more confident ,learn to speak well.i know this all will not happen in one day but get determine to be an achiever by bringing improvements in your life .study well .get better marks than her and ignore her for the time being .let her feel that she was wrong but even after she tries to be friendly with you ,express your unhappiness about the issue.start working towards the self improvement.get some good books to teach yourself and i 'm sure you will be able to groom yourself.good luck !
2007-03-14 09:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by sudha p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that, politely, that you would like to go to her next party, no matter how badly you don't fit in. YOU can choose to leave if you want to. Try not to get bad blood between you two, especially if you are in the same collage soon.
2007-03-14 09:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by Em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt wanna be friends with someone like that...she was just makin up excuses so you wouldnt get mad at her....but it came out i would be mad at her you have every right to be...give it time or w.e then maybe talk to her about it then see what happens
2007-03-14 09:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋