i want to hang out with him a lot,BUT i dont want my true feelings to show yet because i know that it will lead to awkwardness on both our sides n then i might be heartbroken. how can i spend more time with him?
a subtle approach so that i can figure out if there really is a spark between us. it would be easier to withdraw in this way coz its not too obvious.
i've been getting mixed signal from him which is why i grew more fond of him,yet i think he is also too busy. im afraid that maybe im crushing on a guy who's not interested. but my crush grew stronger coz he gave signs..did he just lose interest or simply did not think that i was interested? im easy to get along with and we're cool friends.
how can make it casual but in reality i want to get to know him more. we dont have any class together,im not in rotc,we both work,n our schedules are different. text? what do i say? i want to be careful so i wont screw it up.
2007-03-14 02:11:33 · 6 answers · asked by dazednconfused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him for some technical help in which he may b strong. Don't atall pick up the question of interest, speak out topics, which intersts him. Ask him to join u in some serious spots, coz u r afraid to b alone.
Don't use emotional signs or emotional gestures or words.
Just look serious, and when u think its not possible, just keep urself under too much control and see if he turns up.
Make urself "unavailable" at times.
2007-03-14 02:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by anwesha08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that a group of your friends are getting together on this date just to hang out to have a Pizza and a beverage and ask him to come along, that its work related and you need his opinion on a situation there, or find out about his hobbies and interests.
like attracts like, if you have common interests then the conversation should be that much easier
2007-03-14 02:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what I'm doing, hanging out with him in groups,
Ask him to join you & mates when you go out in the eve, or for a day out, that way it's not like you're "asking him out" but you're still getting to know him & spend time with him. If he likes your company you'll find out if he asks you to join him & his mates when they go out as well. Don't persue it too much though, otherwise you might scare him away before you even get started.
2007-03-14 02:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by Bubbly Blonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consult with him, don't be worried or something. Then possibly merely tell him the way you experience approximately him. you would be chuffed which you probably did. have confidence me. i replaced into interior the comparable place you have been in. Now that I instructed my desirable chum that i in my opinion like him, we are going out!
2016-12-14 18:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. Tell him u'd like to see him more regularly. If he's decent and understanding, there shouldn't be any problems.
All the best!
2007-03-14 02:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by FlyerGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should just like...when u see him in the halways smile andwhen he smiles back approach him and start a conversation...hope it goes well!!
2007-03-14 02:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by lexus s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋