feel as if i just cant love anymore..what do i do?
2007-03-14 02:11:30 · 7 answers · asked by magichick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You listen to what your heart is telling you. It sounds like your last relationship really hurt you a lot, and your natural defenses are keeping you safe from more heartbreak. Do not push yourself to love. It will happen when you're truly healed and ready.
2007-03-14 02:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Kyle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it may come across a little cheesy but counselling really is the best option when you know within yourself that you can't emotionally jump over the hurdles your last relationship left behind. Sometimes people are unable to cope with what lifes deals to them and its ok to need someone on the outside to put things a little more into perspective for you. Just go to at least one or two sessions and be completely open and honest about whats going on for you and I'm sure you can come away with some really good results.
2007-03-14 02:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long is a long time?
Do you love yourself? If you don't, how do you expect to love or be loved by someone else?
It sometimes takes quite a while to move on, to deal with the emotions that were tied with old relationships, to let go and let God take care of your life.
When it is time for a new relationship to come to a head, it wil come.
All good things come in time. Have patience. Get a hobby, socialize, or find something to do with friends to take up some of your time.
Maybe even counseling, may help.
2007-03-14 02:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by Havnoclue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, I think people are devistated when long relationships end. When you're ready you can get back into the dating game. But when the right person comes along loving them will be natural, you'll never have to worry if you have enough love for them.
2007-03-14 02:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank God, you are finally worried about the FUTURE!
Hi freind!
just as you can't be satisfied on the dinner you ate last night, similarly, you need emotional fuel to keep the love-flame burning in ur heart.
why, you have a lovely heart, imagine! you have loved someone so much!
but now, its TIME TO LET GO!
Keep his memories on the palm of ur hand, as you would, keep a palm full of roses and blow them away to the wind!
GIVE URSELF A CHANCE. GOD HELPS THOSE WHO HELP THEMSELVES.
pls try
1. reading the book, MANY LIVES MANY MASTERS by DR BRIAN WEISS.
2. try reiki OR try going to www.sahajayoga.org. then click on EXPERIENCE IT NOW.....you will come to know of a simple and magical way of life to forget the past and move on...
all the best..never hesitate to email me.
2007-03-14 02:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same hugeeee boat ur in. Im just stuck and scared to move on
2007-03-14 02:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by rayray34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another di*k.. don't worry you'll get use with the next ones
2007-03-14 02:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋