I can't live without these things. but my mom............................
2007-03-14 01:09:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
HAVE YOU THOUGHT ABOUT TRYING IT WITH GIRLS? YOUR MOM MIGHT APPROVE
2007-03-14 01:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think the answer is hinging on your age here.
If you are 11-14 then you should be discussing these things with your Mom.
whether she likes it or not, you must be prepared to out there when it is time and k now what the score is.
If you can't discuss this with her ,I would try the health teacher at school.
She could probably steer you to some good reading material as well as talking openly and freely with you.
You need the information so that in the future you can make the right decisons.
If you are boy crazy , you are no different than most, it is the norm between this age.
Your Mom sounds like she is from a strict background or a strongly religious sect and these things are not talked about .
You must educate yourself and when the opportunity arises you will be ready.
2007-03-14 01:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not say how old you are, but I am guessing you are less than 18. Your mom is only being sensible. She loves you. She does not want to see you get hurt. Have you considered the potential consequences of sex? Pregnancy. HPV. Herpes. Aids. Loss of self respect if guys use you, and likely they will.
The fact is that you CAN live without these things. Lots of people do, and many of them are better people because of it. I am not necessarily saying that sex is wrong. Whether or not it is ultimately is a personal choice. What I AM saying is that if you are under 18, you are way too young to fully understand or deal with the kind of problems that sex can send your way. Sexually transmitted diseases are real. Pregnancy is real. Jerk boyfriends who will do or say anything to take advantage of you are real. And when these things all fall down upon you and ruin your life, who is going to get stuck picking up all the pieces?
Your mom.
You should seriously reconsider your position.
2007-03-14 01:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your mom may hate sex that is possible some women do .
i think its more likely that she is just aware of what sort of things involving sex you might get up to yourself and she would prefer you enjoy more of the great innocence of childhood for a time longer. once childhood has past boy do we ever wish we could return but once a line has been crossed and you know what line i mean its gone.
how about for this next 6 months you cool it down with the boys as she asks then in 6 months or maybe just 3 you slowly introduce the subject again . she is aware that you will date at some point and that what goes on when out on a date. she did manage to have you so i think its fair to say she at-least has the basics down. in reality you mom knows more then you care to know she knows so don't disregard her thinking on this subject out of hand.
2007-03-14 01:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will certainly live without those things, as you will realize later in life. Your Mom is only looking out for your welfare. You'll have plenty of time for sex and boys in a few years. In the meantime, enjoy your young years and spend your time making good, lifelong friends and preparing for the life you will have when you are older.
2007-03-14 01:17:11 · answer #5 · answered by NJGuy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're interested in HAVING sex (that's what it sounds like) and I assume you're a minor, so what do you think I'm going to say? Sex is an ADULT activity. When you become an adult have all you want, but until then keep a tight lid on those urges.
2007-03-14 01:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say by that you are under the age of consent. She's just being your mother and trying to protect you, that is all it isn't her fault don't be into to much of a rush you got your entire lifetime to do with what you want to do but first reach get to the age of consent and preferably move out of your moms house.
2007-03-14 01:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by idak13 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what's your age young girl.
try to understand your mom's concerns.
you'll get to play your part when you're old enough. many young girls end up with unwanted pregnancy in the haste to learn it from peers who're equally naive.
you can try to talk to her though.
2007-03-14 01:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by sanjay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably too young for boys, anyhow. Follow your mom's advice.
2007-03-14 01:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait till you are over 18 then you can do what you want
2007-03-14 01:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess all you can do is get on the computer and look at porn and cyber with guys.
2007-03-14 02:35:44 · answer #11 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋