i have met a guy off the internet, he's really nice.i saw him last thursday and he was going to holland on the friday until the following tuesday which is cool. but i called him saturday and there wasn't a european ring tone, meaning the phone was in the UK. i asked him about it yesterday and he said he left that phone here and had another one. he also wants to come down this saturday for the day and night...so could he be seeing someone else or am i being paranoid?
2007-03-14 00:42:24 · 14 answers · asked by missobrien@btinternet.com 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be careful, and go with your gut feeling ... If you think something is wrong, don't be too inviting and make sure others know about the situation. However, just giving it up altogether might be a bit too much as he could be completely honest. Just be careful ...
Good luck though, and I hope everything will work out!
CK
2007-03-14 00:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by CK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite possible that he did have a different phone. Maybe the phone he normally uses doesn't work where he had to go. Try not to get too involved in this guy emotionally until you know him better. In the meantime take what he says to you at face value. Take your relationship with him alittle more casually. Guys don't like it when you get too clingy or nosey about their personal business, especially if you just started this relationship. It makes you look needy. Relax and take it one day at a time and you'll be fine. Be cautious...people aren't always what they seem to be.
2007-03-14 00:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult to understand your question actually. Yes, it is possible that he has two phones, but for all you know he could be seeing another girl in Holland, so the question about the phones doesn't really matter. Right?
Learn to trust him unless there is real evidence otherwise.
2007-03-14 00:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ginny Jin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just met him. this means two things: either you trust him and be open, or you don't and don't see him again. it's really early to make decisions of a person (you wouldn't want someone to judge you from the beginning). the fact that you met him by net also doesn't provide information about him. you could have met him on a bar. it's the same thing. i think that you should give him a change. if he doesn't deserve it he will be the one to lose. either way you'll have a great time!
2007-03-14 00:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off I think if you sound this cagey about getting invovled now then I wouldnt bother! Ok so he could have left the phone here - but why would he have left it on for the few days? It sounds like your gut instinct made you ring it- like you subconciously had your doubts about it so Id let him off - plenty more decent men out there!
xx
2007-03-14 03:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good start babes..........you sound incredibly insecure. You're takin a risk meetin someone off the internet anyways an to go analysing it so much when you've only met im once?? Don't b soooooo paranoid............x
2007-03-14 01:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say yes because how many people do you know who actually have 2 or 3 phones and who would leave a phone home , i sure dont, i believe he has several other gf off here and he is scared you will catch on so he is going to try to sleep with you before you figure him out dont do it no telling what diasese he has.
2007-03-14 00:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by karen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's quite possible he left his phone.....enjoy yourself on saturday and give him a chance. but go with your gut instinct after that
2007-03-17 09:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by MICHY06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea from the start unless you just want sex with a stranger. Don't go there.
2007-03-14 02:00:10 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a Chance
2007-03-14 00:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋