2007-03-14 00:29:22 · 16 answers · asked by anne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is a strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties or affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interest, attraction based on sexual desire, worm attachment, enthusiasm, or devotion.
In view of the above, we find that love on one hand is a natural, distinctive feeling. On the other hand it is a feeling motivated by sex, admiration, common interest, or devotion.
Love, therefore, may fall on either one or both of persons concerned. If love is only one-sided, it becomes infatuation. Infatuation may end up in humiliation and sufferings. If love is mutual, it becomes a healthy relationship.
If I stay with the one I love, I’ll appreciate it if he/she also loves me in return. If he/she does not and I am aware of that, this is really not love on my side, but infatuation.
If I stay with the one who loves me, I may as well love him/her, otherwise if I do not I’ll then be selfish.
Therefore, my answer will be:
1. Both, being influenced by infatuation and not being concerned with my selfishness.
2. Neither, understanding the infatuation is not love and selfishness is not a good quality.
I would not prefer one to the other; otherwise if I do then I am a hypocrite.
2007-03-14 15:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by Aadel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol! What Asian united states of america might this be, someplace in China, Taiwan or Singapore or a Chinatown in an asian united states of america? This do no longer appear as if a love triangle, the single whose arm around the girl is in all probability a precise relative or buddy yet no longer the sweetheart. while you're pertaining that i'm in this type of love triangle concern, as a guy, i might merely play alongside and not take this dating heavily then disappear devoid of word.
2016-10-02 02:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by holtzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMMM, that's a tough one! I think that maybe I wouldn't chooe. If the person I love doesn't love me back then I would learn to like them just as a friend and try liking the person who loves me. Figure out hidden qualities he/she might have before starting a relationship, but it might be fun trying to find out what they're hiding.
2007-03-14 00:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kelsie A 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
the one who loves me.
2007-03-14 00:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by aishah 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a tough question. I fall in love often and indiscriminately, it's the being loved I find hard to handle.
2007-03-14 00:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by Avondrow 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i will gonna stay with the person who loves me... time passes by quickly maybe i can learn to love that person...
2007-03-14 00:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im gonna stay with the one who loves me but make out with the one i love...
if u just want a casual relationship...there's nothing more exciting than bein with someone u truely love...
but if ur ready to settle down with someone u wanna marry...then he has to love u...or else it'll b too tiring
2007-03-14 00:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by Forever happy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i want both. i could never be happy if the person i loved didnt love me and vice verse.
2007-03-14 00:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by Felice Schragenheim 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i was will always love the one who loves me, forever!
2007-03-14 00:32:30 · answer #9 · answered by agius1520 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The one who lets me...
2007-03-14 00:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋