I seem to always disagree with my work colleague,one day we get on fine, the nxt day she is rude and extremely patronising towards me.WHY?? We speak to each 1 day but not another - WHY??
There are other times where we flirt continuously,smiling,stare into each others eyes,emails,body language etc....
Now we don't talk to each other AT ALL. Colleagues say we have a love/hate relationship going on! We only communicate via EMAIL, where we get on like a house on fire!!!
Also, when we're all meant to go out for a drink with colleagues(which she suggested),she ALWAYS pulls out! Why she do this???
WHY can we only communicate via email and not face to face???
p.s she always mentions how I pulled her mate LAST YEAR-why???(her mate don't work wth us!)
Whats this all MEAN if ANYTHING???Advice....
2007-03-13 23:58:46 · 7 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's got a boyfriend of 2 years-she's said that he won't commit though.......
2007-03-13 23:59:27 · update #1
You are doing or saying something during those "good" days that she is thinking about later, and getting mad at. She sounds like she "likes" you - but doesn't think that it will ever be anything more than just a work crush. Do you flirt with other girls at work? Do other girls talk about you to her? If she feels like she is just one of many, this will make her back off. Email is safe. She can say things that she would be scared to say normally. Just email and ask - if she truly does like you, she will tell you what's going on.
2007-03-14 00:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she actually sounds like a calculated b***h, for one she has a boyfriend,(ever wondered why he doesnt want to commit?) do you really think that someone that childish would make you happy, gosh if this is what her "friendship" is like i bet a relationship would be a whole barrel of laughs,you sound really sweet and deserve better than this just keep it strictly buissness and dont rise to her bait, good luck
2007-03-14 07:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think she herself does not know why she behaves this way. Sounds like she has emotional problems.
2007-03-14 07:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS TIME TO STEP BACK AND OFF BECAUSE FROM WHAT YOU JUST SAID DO U WONDER WHY THE OTHER GUY WONT COMMIT SO DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND DONT BE RUDE AND SPEAK AND KEEP IT MOVING BECAUSE FOR ONE THATS YOUR JOB AND IM SURE YOU DONT WANT ALL THAT DRAMA THERE SO LEAVE WELL ENOUGH ALONE
2007-03-14 07:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by mocha27girl 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it is simple. When she is good to you one day, don't see her until the day after, not the next day.
2007-03-14 07:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes u, but she didn't notice her own feeling for u. she's got confused by her own feeling. please do understand her and give her times to search her heart.
2007-03-14 07:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her and she will come around.
2007-03-14 07:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋