please let me know your opinion. cheers. xx
2007-03-13 23:57:21 · 30 answers · asked by Janey-Wayney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I'm 36 and my son is 16, I'm going with a big
round of eeeeeewwwwwwwwwww!!!!!
Sounds only, to me, like the makings of a terribly awful
porn flick. Please don't let me know if you have seriously
been "doing" this, because imho it is beyond wrong
legally and morally and ethically. And believe me honey, there is definitely something wrong with this MAN if he is playing with a GIRL/WOMAN....mentally or something.
YUCK YUCK YUCK!!!! Try again when you are 30 and he is 53....but then again he probably wouldn't want you but your friends daughter instead.
Sorry, but the truth hurts sometimes.
2007-03-14 00:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by Maggie B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes that is very wrong that under age dating a 39 year old with a 16 year old yes that is wrong
2007-03-14 00:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think so personally that person is old enough to be your dad the oldest i've ever been with was been 30 and i was 21.!!
I don't think it's right for the man to be flirting with you he is nearly 40 and should know better it's not a nice thought. If you were one year younger he would be classed as a paedophile
2007-03-14 00:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by Missbutterfly:-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AGE is just a set of numbers, it is disregarded in the equation of love. I knew a 35 years old guy in the Philippines who is happily married (and still married) to a 68 years old women. The couple was recently been feature in a story in ABS-CBN Network.
However, if they were just flirting, time will tell if they will still be attracted to each other in the future. But at the moment, if they enjoyed each others company, there is absolutely nothing to worry about.
2007-03-14 00:08:10 · answer #4 · answered by del 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - it is WAY WRONG. It is like hitting on your dad's friends. If a 39 year old man is hitting on a child - he is a perv. A 16 year old girl, on the other hand, is still immature and probablly loves the attention.
2007-03-14 00:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing as how the man is old enough to be her father, yeah, I'd say it's wrong on a few levels. I'd have to question his maturity at getting involved with someone so young as well as his motivation (sex?!?) and then hers as well...is she subconsciously looking for a father figure or is she just flattered that some one so much older than her is paying attention to her? Could it be a status thing for her ( Look, I've got an older man chasing after me!)? Either way...ICK!
2007-03-14 00:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read up the "Amy Fisher"-case and you'll know the answer, yes it is wrong.
If a man at this age flirts with a teenage-girl, he mostly haves issues that keep him back from having a relationship with a woman his age, teenage girls are wayyyy easier to influence and wayyy eager to be submissive - this is, what those men want. They don't want equality in a relationship.
2007-03-14 01:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by Chevrolet*Blazer*Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Yes i would say it's definitely wrong. I would be furious if it was my daughter and would tell them both so as well. Why is a man of that age looking at a girl young enough to be his daughter, flirting is dangerous territory.
Hope this helps you.
Jeanette
2007-03-14 00:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by jeanette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! Wonderful way to land in prison(where RSOs are at the bottom of the inmate heirarchy and treated that way) and get a RSO label for life. If you were after my 16 yr old daughter I'd slice your sack off. Nothing personal, it's a FATHER thing....
RSO: Registered Sex Offender
2007-03-14 00:04:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-03-13 23:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by Cat Stevens 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋