How can I stop or become a less jealous person? Im not an abnormally jealous person but i believe it bothers me more than its supposed to. While some guys do or say nothing when another guy is checking out their girl, I do. Especially when the other guy comments on some physical aspect. Is it wrong for me to not want to share my woman? (Serious answers please)
2007-03-13 23:42:24 · 9 answers · asked by unpredictedmystery 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can also add that a guy has come up to me before and asked if he could "holla at shawty for a quick min"....i, not being american, didnt understand what he said at first, but when i foound out i wanted to go over there and beat his face in....but she didnt want that cuz she doesnt like violence...so i went the rest of the day sorta pissed off...
2007-03-14 00:03:32 · update #1
what happened to f*cking man code?
2007-03-14 00:05:17 · update #2
no it's not wrong for you to get mad if another guy disrespects you and comments on your girl if you are with her. Jealousy is a normal emotion we all have at one time or another but if you want to stop being jealous as much it's best to understand that your woman not only attracts you but other guys as well. Just as you may attract other women.
2007-03-13 23:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by iluv_darrell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all jealous, but we all handle it differently. You are right, probably you shouldn't let on, as to the extent of your jealousy. I think when our spouse knows we are jealous, they will do the things that make us so, even if behind our backs.
2007-03-13 23:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its more normal than you think, and you are more honest about it than most people, thats all, if you love someone, why would you want to share them with someone else. its nice when someone wants you all to themselves. you dont come across as irrational about it so relax, wouldnt you like it if your girl was jealous? a little? because of the reasoning behind it?
2007-03-13 23:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some trust in whoever you are with. If you trust this person will never cheat on you, then you have nothing to worry about if guys check her out.
2007-03-13 23:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by Mista R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be a serious jealous person too....take out some time and tell urself tht ur better than every1 els......try to figure out the bad point of other and compare ur good points with them....it'll take time...but will work!!!!!
2007-03-13 23:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i if were you I'd just give the guy a dirty look but make sure your girl don't see you doing it or else she might feel over protected or just might not like that
if not just smile and tell him how unlucky he is
~hope you find a good solution~
2007-03-13 23:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is normal, but too much of it can make ur girl think u are insecure.
2007-03-13 23:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jamal J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god. you're interior the suitable same undertaking as i grow to be at approximately 3 months. congratulations, dude, she sounds extraordinary. did somebody destroy up along with her? you won't be able to settle for 2d place, you need to comprehend which you are the only one, whether she keeps telling you you're? there could be a pair adjustments, between us, inspite of the indisputable fact that. Is she a virgin? mine is, and that i'm nevertheless wound up concerning to the failings she admitted to doing, after a three hundred and sixty 5 days. i nevertheless locate strains, old e-mails, facebook discussions, and so on, of her old dating. i can not get all of it out devoid of lacking some thing, and that i actually ought to respond to the question. first and maximum appropriate, supply her as plenty love, attention, and entertainment as you in all probability can. then, have one genuine, common communicate along with her and get all your emotions out. make her evaluate her own determination, latest questions like "do you think of you may experience this way if he hadn't broken up with you?" and "you're this variety of super guy or woman, super sufficient to tell me what i opt to pay attention." she would burst into tears on the memories you carry back, yet you won't be able to back off using fact that's problematical to ask it back, and she or he gets bored to death in it. in case you do it suitable, you will get the fact. using fact if she loves you maximum, she will on no account be afraid to offer you the fact, she won't back off or replace the undertaking. it is way less substantial, yet locate out as much as you may approximately her old boyfriend(s), use facebook or myspace or in spite of. that, blended with what your lady pal stated, ought to offer you a stable theory of what you're competing with and assist you reassure your self. now i ended up being confident that what i had to pay attention grow to be in fact the fact, yet surely, i enjoyed her sufficient to settle for 2d place and date her with a ripped heart. something to stay along with her.
2016-09-30 21:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be Jealous and fight with its problems with cool mind u will be perfact in this
2007-03-13 23:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by rocky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋