ok guys my story begins with the love of my life leaving me for another guy..this happend december of 05 and the thing is im still not moved on. now the part about this that bothers me is i cant sleep anymore..either because now i have nightmares every night or because i have a dream about me and her fighting or trying to convince her i love her or her and some other dude bragging infront of me..i have been depressed and its to the point were every night i refuse to sleep..i mean i have been wit other girls in bewteen then and now and i just cant seem to find happiness in anything that i do..hell im up at two in the morning just typing this..is there anything or one that can seriously like explain how to help or what i should od
2007-03-13 21:56:26 · 8 answers · asked by ohitscrusty 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
haha the girl who replied second that is the same date me and her split
2007-03-13 22:30:50 · update #1
i kno i should move on and all..but i mean i put in a years worth of time just to get wit her and three years of a relationship to have it all crumble in the end...its hard bro i mean i try all the time i always focus on new things but something hits me over the head saying call her or talk to her or something..and the sad thing is she still cant stand me when i talk to other girls or i dont call..i mean i have litterally gone weeks without callin but out of kno where she shows up at say my job just to say hi knowing she has another man or something..ive done everything i mean the nightmares are there its just the dreams where we are fighting or im crying cuase of her that bother me....i unno i litterally havent gotten more then five hours asleep a night since this all started
2007-03-13 22:36:05 · update #2
find something in your life to make you happy...not other girls or relationships. focus your energy on your life and everything else should fall into place
2007-03-13 22:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by l81ucky 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi Bro
All I can say is that I'ts never easy breaking up with somebody u love and feel like your life is empty without them ,but the truth is, the is light at the end of the turnel .If a person decide's to leave it just means that their part is over in your life ,they were never ment to stay for eternity ,they were never yours. so bro u just have to accept this and move on . The only thing u need to do is just try to gain your confidence back and remind yourself how spacial and beautiful u are and if this chick does'nt want to be with u well it's her loss , and that nightmares thing bro it's all in the mind just free yourself from her and you'lle see the light will shine much brighter than before.
2007-03-13 22:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sbongile Emmah G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen my friend, many of us..including myself, have been in your situation. Much in love, she finds another, love is lost, sleepless nights...too many sleepless nights to count.
BUT, eventually you get over it...you MUST get over it...
like the saying goes "Time heals all wounds"...
well, that's how it's supposed to work anyway...
so, the time has come for you to heal thyself.
You need to just accept the fact that you and she were together, you had good times for as long as it lasted and now,
now it's time for both of you to move on...
she has...and after more than a year, how about you?
2007-03-13 22:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by GeneL 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If this is very serious and you would like to talk or need help you can e-mail me or IM me. I could give you better answers but I would need to have a more descriptive details about certain things and certain situations. In the mean time hang in there my friend.
2007-03-13 22:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-03-13 22:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you are suffering from nightmares to a point were you can't sleep It is best to discuss this with a psychiatrist. It appears you are suffering acute stress disorder from personal loss. So I suggest you pick up the phonebook and schedule an appointment with one as soon as possible.
2007-03-13 22:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i know exactly what you are going through my sons father and i split up December 9th 2005 and i haven't been the same since but hey you are better than me, i haven't been with anyone since him i still love him with every oz. of my soul and i mean its 4 am here in TX and I'm on yahoo answers cause i just cant bring myself to go to sleep and have the same dreams of us over and over.................... if you wanna talk you can email me and we can try and help each other out of this rut, I'm 21 years old i don't wanna be like this forever and I'm sure you know what I'm talking about.
2007-03-13 22:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by Jeremysmom05 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hey mate,
u seriously need to MOVE ON!!
That chick doesn't sound worth all the depression she's causing u..try & focus on sumthin diffrent..sum1 new...dont waste ur life feeling sorry 4 urself..move on & enjoy life!!!!!!
:0)
2007-03-13 22:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋