I may be a grown woman, but every time I get into an argument with someone, they call me a fat a.., & it REALLY hurts my feelings, & it makes me depressed & eat more, but it also makes me feel like I have no right to eat. Like as if I deserve to starve myself as a punishment. My family members usually call me fat & greedy. My roommate called me a fat whore today, & she charged @ me with 2 knives. I missed dinner, being guilty of my weight.
2007-03-13 21:50:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
First of all, you NEVER have to starve yourself for punishment because of others' inability to choose better words to express themselves.
You can't control what other people call you, but you can control how you respond to it or how you take care of your body. They say that because it's the easy thing to do... put down someone else as a way to compensate for some insecurity they have about themselves... you never see someone put down someone who is weaker than they are.
Keep positive and hey... get that roommate with the two knives checked out at the looney bin!
2007-03-13 22:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm ill of this obsession with weight. until you're fat to the factor the place you won't have the ability to stroll or get off the mattress or have severe well-being problems strictly using fact of your weight its a topic. Who stated looking like a stick became proper and being heavier isn't? society has been brainwashed. How did that start up? for this reason ladies are throwing up their food and starving themselves then people have some thing to assert approximately that. All that concerns is which you're a sort loving person. i do no longer care how skinny you're if youre an asshole. recover from it.
2016-10-18 08:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you associating yourself with these people? I'll admit, I'm slightly overweight but nobody I know would call me fat (at least to my face) and I wouldn't stand for it if they did. The fact that knives were involved today, well, get the hell out of that situation. Honestly, I understand what you feel with starving yourself as punishment, but its a horrible way to punish yourself. You deserve better than that. Losing weight is hard, but you need to do it in a healthy way.
As for those that insist on using weight as an insult... well look at it this way, these are supposedly the people who know you well (family, roommates) and thats the best they can come up with? You'd think that if you were so horrible they'd have some better ammunition. I know its hard, but don't stoop to their level or give them the satisfaction of knowing that it hurts you. If you really need to say something in return I've read this one before
"Well at least I can lose weight, nothings going to help you from being an a**hole" or some other varient of that.
2007-03-13 22:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jenner 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow! what a roommate. I'd get a new one before she actually stabs you.
To answer your question they call you fat because they know it hurts you. Are you though? If you are, only you can change that but people have no right to call you names like that. They should get their point across without being mean to you... or stabbing you. It sounds like you might have a guilty complex about your weight if you deprive yourself after someone calls you fat. You should remember though unless you do something constructive to change your habits permanently it will not make one bit of difference. You starving yourself won't help anything it will just make you hungry. Stay away from these jerks if at all possible. They obviously don't know how to be kind to you.
2007-03-13 22:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
People who call you fat are rude and don't deserve to have you waste anymore time thinking about them.
The roommate thing is a different story. I guess if I had to choose between being called fat or being charged at with two knives, I would choose the name calling.
2007-03-13 23:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by Patti C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It hurts your Ego because deep down your Soul knows it is True
And instead of taking the remark and doing something positive for your own personal growth you sink into self pity.
People will tell you what you need to know just to better yourself other wise they would not even raise the issue.
Get real with yourself and exercise to better yourself and for health reasons you get depressed because you are not activating your pheromone to bring your energy level up you can meditate and exercise for this : ) and find a healthier diet
Love & Blessings
Milly
2007-03-13 22:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i am soo sorryy...u DONT need to punish urself for those useless mouth****!!
there are more fat people in this world compared to thin ones...its not a big deal!!!
dont be so sad about it sweetheart...just because u admire food more than others does not make u inferior..!
u need to stand up for ursell...and dont skip ur meals...exercise...n all that..that will help u more...even ppl call me fat at times...n i feel sad too..although i am not fat...anyways...
heres a quote for u...keep it for urself for the whole of ur life...it helps:-
its difficult to rise above crisis situation,
its easier to stick ur head in a pillow n cry..
the choice is urs....
i hope u get over this..n move ahead to improve things in ur life..
wish u all the best honey
god bless!
2007-03-13 22:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by ♥panicqueen♥ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hey girl, you definitely need to get some self respect bout you and most certainly need to get some NEW friends !! How can they be soooooooo rude and insensitive ?? Surely they know by now that a big beautifull heart beats in your chest that has feelings???
Next time they disrespect you just laugh at them and tell them that's o.k. cos at least you can diet but they're ugly and that goes straight to the bone !!!
.................... :0)
PEACE
2007-03-13 22:08:07 · answer #8 · answered by Minx 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋