I will be homeschooled next year and I have a problem with that. There this site that my mom found, it's just about homeschooling, it's not a real school (I'm not sure), but they provide homeschooling for children. Anyways, my sister will tutor me for the next two years, the problem is that she has her own problem, she still have to go to work and continue. My mom and dad are busy, so they don't have much time for helping me study. I am concerned for my sister. I don't want to be a hindrance from persuing her dreams. What should I do? And if I study alone, however, they don't trust me if I could really do it. So, I really don't know what to do!
2007-03-13 20:56:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Home Schooling
I agree, why are your parents wanting you to be homeschooled when they don't have the time to see that it is carried out properly?
I'm really not trying to be rude, but this is the type of situation people focus on when they say homeschooling is bad.
Homeschooling is supposed to be a mutually supportive, inspiring, encouraging journey for a family, not a time burden.
I'm not convinced that your parents are doing this because they believe the quality of your education will be better if they are not willing to sacrifice the time.
Are you not able to return to school? If so, then still, your parents should be supporting you with their time, to see you through this difficult time.
No matter what circumstances got you here, you need to speak to your parents. If they want you to be homeschooled, even though you do not want to, then they need to see that they need to adjust their schedules to accomodate your studies. You are changing your life, they need to do so as well. It's a two way street, a partnership and they need to do their part.
NOW, having said that, yes, you will be able to do a lot on your own. My highschooler works independantly, and maintains a 94 average. I definitely do not hold her hand, but I'm here if she needs me. You need to feel as though your parents are there to help you if you need it. Going from being spoon fed in a classroom environment to learning how to be an independant learner is a process and you will need lots of support.
It is your parents job to provide that support, not your sister. Yes, it's awesome that your sister is willing to help, it will be great. But the responsibility is your parent's.
2007-03-14 03:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason why you have to be home schooled next year? It sounds like everyone is really busy and don't have any time to teach you properly. The only thing about studying yourself with no guidance is that you could end up on the wrong tangent, be stuck on something with no help or fall completely behind everyone else. Is there any way they can bring in a tutor for you? It would save your sister from having to take time out for her dreams and also be a weight off your parents' minds. Also, could you talk to your parents about this and see if it was possible you could stay in school?
2007-03-13 21:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by Cat burgler 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can study by yourself. All you need is a reference book. You must always refer to the book if you don't understand certain problem. Just tell your mom and your dad that can't study with your sister because the way your sister teach is not the same as the teachers teach you. You can tell your mom that you can study with your friend like making a study group. I don't really read your question so, forgive me if I answer a wrong answer.
2007-03-13 21:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by Strife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to be really focused in your studies at home. You must be disciplined and not be enticed by any distractions at home, games, TV, etc.
I know I'm not capable of being so studious like that. But if you draw up a timetable for yourself, and do what the 1st answerer told you to [it's very sensible advice], then I think your parents should trust to you handle this pretty well.
2007-03-13 21:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by Serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course. Even if you take preliminary courses, that does not necessarily mean your level will become higher. It's just a matter of cumulative personal skills. Believe me, I took TOEFL and just studied some Guide books to TOEFL held by ETS. My result was reasonable. But look for someone to help you improve your writing and speaking skills if you want an outstanding result. Best wishes!
2016-03-28 22:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can study on your own. If you know how to do the material or can figure it out, there is no reason for you not to study on your own. (Even in school you do have to study). Also, if you study on your own, it will show your parents that you are responsible.
2007-03-14 03:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Catherine♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's another great online resource for home schoolers. haiku LMS has a growing number of home schooler who want to maintain a website to aide in teaching.
It is free (they also have paid accounts), fast and easy. Post content from your hard drive (photos, files, links, text, audio, video) or from Flickr, YouTube, Google Video and ODEO. v2.0 comes out this summer and includes online discussions, private messaging, homework drop box and an excellent grade book.
2007-03-15 01:27:50 · answer #7 · answered by haiku_prez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~ Ummmm... good question, Rockstar_90...
~ My prayer is that it is Christian home schooling.
~ Most all home schooling programs have ties with the local schools... mentor groups... families that are doing the same thing... contacts can be made for students of same sex, age, school year to possibly work together on certain projects, and at least, help is only a phone call away.
~ Make the most of what you have... Pray for the Lord to give you wisdom... Pray that the Lord gives your parents and sister wisdom in working with you on the home schooling... Pray that the Lord would provide you with a better education than being in the school system... Pray that the Lord would give you an awesome 'mentor' and school mates close by to share the burdon with.
~ Jeremiah 29:11-13 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
Then shall ye call upon me, and ye shall go and pray unto me, and I will hearken unto you.
And ye shall seek me, and find [me], when ye shall search for me with all your heart.
~ Acts 2:42 And they continued stedfastly in the apostles' doctrine and fellowship, and in breaking of bread, and in prayers.
2007-03-13 21:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by James N 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Start off with your sister, and build their trust.
Simply study on your own IN ADDITION to any sessions with your sister. This way they'll see you're committed.
2007-03-13 21:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by puppies.sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, why are they homeschooling you in the first place?
2007-03-13 21:02:30 · answer #10 · answered by kenniemcooper 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋