Would you judge them at all? Would you assume they were not together or not serious and hit on him anyway?
2007-03-13 20:07:54 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not the one who wants to hit on him, I am the one with him, and I worry that other people say things behind my back like "He could do better"
2007-03-13 20:14:18 · update #1
I would think he was a good guy and see's beyond the outside stuff. No you shouldn't --hit on him anyway--
2007-03-13 20:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kismitt 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
a good looking guy with an overweight girl, he must be a great guy who looks beyond the flesh and knows that the most important thing is what lies within. If he already with you worry, he liked you the way you are and has many reasons why he got attracted to you and not some skinny girl. Be proud and confident. If you loose confidence in yourself and in him you will loose your man. All the best girl and keep your head up always , weight is just flesh alot more lies deep down and only special people see that.
2007-03-13 20:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by frankie 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I married a beautiful, skinny, Jr. Miss. Nearly 14 years later she's, well, not skinny anymore. This is the case with most marriages, so I guess there's not much judging going on in that area. However, when a young guy is dating a not-so-skinny girl there probably is some judging going on. It's not right, but it happens.
2007-03-13 20:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oh sweetheart dont worry about what ppl say! You know ppl will always have alot to say. If both are good looking, they ll probably say, OOooh look at this shallow snobs, they so deserve each other! No one is free of critisisms. I personally think its cute. Given the fact that I do not know both of you personally, I wld think that the girl must have something special in her and of great substance to be the chosen one!
My bf is gorgeous and girls hit on him but I wldnt care less. I mean there is no possible way he s gonna get a girl like me ever again, the way I see it, its his loss! and no, I wldnt hit on ur bf either, lol... Chin up my dear! :)
2007-03-13 21:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by Wish 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No! That would be a very "mean girl-esque" thing to do! And I have seen very pretty overweight girls as well, in case you didn't know they existed. But for the overweight ones that really have no redeeming qualities, like acne, no pretty features, etc., and the guy is good-looking, I sually just assume they are friends until I see them show affection and then I usually think that she must be "easy" or why is he with her.
2007-03-13 20:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I once knew this "smokin" hott guy who had a thing for girls who were curvy but he was ashamed of it for some odd reason. Hed date skinny blondes then cheat on them with chubby brunettes.
I rarely do see goodlooking guys with overweight girls, i think its because people sometimes date people to be accepted in society and thats unfortunate. When i do i just hope they are happy.
2007-03-13 20:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by wilma 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would think - here's a guy who sees the inner beauty and appreciates the girl for who she is not what fashion and the whole size thing dictates. And the better looking the guy, the more proud of him I would be, even if I don't know him! Lucky, lucky girl for finding a real keeper!
2007-03-13 20:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
What does goodlooking and overweight have to do with it. If they were both overweight or both goodlooking would it be safe then to asume they are together.... Just ask the guy if he is serious with ANYONE.
2007-03-13 20:11:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
One. Never assume.
Two. That guy is probably a really great person for getting to know who the girl REALLY is and being with her, rather than JUDGING her like most guys probably do and ended up missing out on their chance to be with one in a million. Shame-the-hell-on-them.
Keep your head up girl, you know you're beautiful.
Chin up and smile,
miR :)
2007-03-13 20:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by mir 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would think "D@mn where was she when she found him, I'm tryin to get there." Everyone is free to love who they want. and because I know that just as I disagree with things and people the same applies to me I do my best at not passing judgement on anyone.
2007-03-13 20:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by Shy Sweetness 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋