Okay here is the deal, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost six years. I love him unconditionally and I know he loves me too. I could never see myself being with another man (emotionally or physically), but I sometimes find myself wondering what it would feel like to be with someone else. Our love hasn't died, we still show each other everyday our love for one another. I wonder about past relationships. I wonder if things went differently... would I be less/more happier. I don't know if this is a "step" in life I am going through, or if I am starting to fall out of love. Please Help!! Or share a simiular story.
2007-03-13 19:37:36 · 7 answers · asked by Mrs♥xoC 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gurl you stop it before the doubt piles up & boom!! u have fallen out of love! hmmnn ... but this very thought of it is a sign that somethings missing in your relationship amidst all those showing of love for each other.. but then again its normal to wonder & imagine what would have been like if you were with mr. ex.. just the same..dont dwell too much of the past!! enjoy what you have now & make the most of it. Dragging of something that has been closed will only jeopardize what happiness you may have now. Be thankful of your blessings & count the ways. You never know whats up tomorrow.
2007-03-13 19:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by jables 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever tried swinging? It may be a good option for you. Then your boyfriend would know you still loved him and it would be a way to add some excitement and experience being with another person for the both of you. Hope everything works out! :)
2007-03-21 15:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by ssmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are human this is a norm if you 2 were fighting all the time than you would feel alot better about this but your not your still young though so enjoy the moment s of this special relationship cause these days people are in relationship and they really shouldnt be in so bless this 1 hun
2007-03-21 18:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by carla p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that sometimes we just go through periods where we question everything in our lifes. you have been together quite a long time, and just wonder about what ifs and stuff. it's not wrong to have thoughts, we can't control what our mind thinks. what makes it bad is when we act on our thoughts. if you are happy with your boyfriend and don't want to be with anyone else then just let your thoughts be your thoughts and not your actions.
2007-03-21 15:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always the other sid of life which haunt us . It is there for every one .Heard of the Poen Road not taken if not read it it is by Robert Frost
2007-03-13 19:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by anand_e_j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been going through the same thing, you can never stop the "what if" questions in your head. Thats why we call it wonder.
2007-03-21 19:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I strongly recommend you not to listen to this "SECOND THOUGHT", very few people find such true relation that you have with your friend. Your little mistake could ruin your happy life...
2007-03-13 19:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by Ishitaq Ahmed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋